A guy pretending a bolt service life of 10,000-25,000 rounds is unacceptable is no different than pretending he should be able to drive his car without changing tires every 60,000 miles, or changing oil every 5,000. Moving parts, and parts under pressure are expected to wear and fatigue - such is the nature of these things. We don’t buy a new car every 60,000 miles simply because our tires are bald, and we don’t throw away AR’s every 20,000 rounds simply because the bolt lugs are fatiguing. We replace the consumable parts and continue on.
For a civilian semiauto AR, it’s an absolute fluke of a bolt breaks young in a service life, and anyone complaining about any parts wear and tear after 20,000 rounds is just complaining. Let’s monetize that at around 35¢/round * 20,000 rounds = $7,000 in ammunition fired, so let’s not pretend it’s challenging to replace your $50 bolt every 10,000 rounds to avoid a fracture. Barrels will go every 2500-5,000 rounds, extractor springs and even extractors every 5,000-10,000, replace the $10 buffer spring every 5-10,000 (relaxed length indicated). Even hammer springs fatigue and need replaced typically within 10,000 rounds...
Even bolt action rifles have consumable parts, and require preventative maintenance. Some bolt action triggers should be replaced or at least resprung within 10-25,000 rounds, and naturally, not many bolt action centerfire cartridge barrels will hold on past 5,000 rounds. It’s often recommended guys touch up (re-skim bed) their actions every so often as well....
In other words - nothing which is used will last forever without a maintenance plan, and scheduled replacement or repairs are just part of any good preventative maintenance strategy.