You will never wear out a set of carbide dies so they are all equal.
If you plan to shoot Lead, Hard Cast or Powder Coated bullets then a Lyman M-Die for flaring is nice. Or the Redding or RCBS versions are very nice. Or you can buy a Lee Universal and buy the diameter you wish from NOE. Bullet size coordinating with cylinder throats is important and the Lyman M die design reduce the possibility of swaging down your bullet with the case.
A Factory Crimp Die is useful in Auto Pistols and for FMJ & Plated bullets. With a lead or powder coated bullet you typically want larger bullets. This is where the debate about a Lee FCD sizing your bullet to SAAMI spec and not the diameter you want comes up. Lee notes that their FCD is a Taper Crimp Die in 44 magnum:
"The Lee Taper Crimp Die is hardened steel designed to overcome crimp problems caused by poor die design. These dies offer little or no advantage when used with 1986 or newer Lee Dies as the crimp angle is already a modified taper crimp. Jacketed bullets must have a crimp groove."
https://leeprecision.com/reloading-dies/hand-gun-dies/taper-crimp-die/
I picked up a set of Lyman 38/357 dies because on eBay it was a few dollars more than an M-Die alone. They come with seating stems to match several bullet profiles which is nice. I shoot flat nose Lead & Powder Coated SWC & WC typically so this was very nice. I still use my Lee Dies to size & deprime and then use the LEE seating die to roll crimp into the bullet's crimp groove. I do not use the FCD as they chamber fine into my cylinders. So I am using half Lyman and half Lee dies.