What brass are you reloading? (did it come from CCI Blazer Brass and it has a slight concave on the head?)
All of this focus on what seating die or crimp die should be directed at the sizing die. If the sizing die does not squeeze the case small enough, no amount of crimping is going to help.
Tension to hold the bullet is established by the inside of the case being a few thousandths of an inch smaller in diameter than the bullet diameter. If this doesn't happen first, it does not matter what expander, seater, or crimper you use.
Size a case then measure the inside diameter of the neck. Run the case through the neck exander die and measure the inside neck diameter again. Finally, measure the base diameter of the bullet you're using. Report back with all 3 numbers. Take several readings each time to make sure you have a good measurement.
For rounds that headspace on the case mouth (9mm, 40, 45, 380, etc.), think of crimping as removing the bell at the case mouth only. You're NOT trying to squeeze the case into the bullet, just removal of the flaring you did with the expander die so the bullet would start easily into the case. This is called taper crimping.