Yo Mama
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I was over at my in-laws last night, and my Father in law got into it with me on gun rights. This came after I told them I would have no problem with my children having guns and knives. I don't mind arguments or debates, but when kids get thrown in the mix my emotions raise quickly.
I feel I'm a responsible and good parent. I want my children to know how to use guns and knives, and it's my responsibility to give them this information. My kids are one and four. My Father in law thought I meant I would give my four year old a knife and let her run around with it, bring it to school, do what ever she wants with it. I was just amazed. She would learn how to use it supervised, she would not keep it, and it would only be hers when she matures to a point that I feel she would be safe. The issue that got me was that my parenting was in focus, vs. his feelings on gun/weapon control.
Other arguments from him included that there should be more gun free zones, people shouldn't have guns, and I'm an idiot and a looney. We left soon after. I'll never talk about this again with him, and I feel everyone else agreed with me, so I've at least done my job with the rest of the family.
Just needed to vent. I just don't get it sometimes, this guy is 20 years military, and would love if everyone was disarmed. I left upset, and I'm sure he did, all because I thought my kid was awsome for being into what I'm into.
I feel I'm a responsible and good parent. I want my children to know how to use guns and knives, and it's my responsibility to give them this information. My kids are one and four. My Father in law thought I meant I would give my four year old a knife and let her run around with it, bring it to school, do what ever she wants with it. I was just amazed. She would learn how to use it supervised, she would not keep it, and it would only be hers when she matures to a point that I feel she would be safe. The issue that got me was that my parenting was in focus, vs. his feelings on gun/weapon control.
Other arguments from him included that there should be more gun free zones, people shouldn't have guns, and I'm an idiot and a looney. We left soon after. I'll never talk about this again with him, and I feel everyone else agreed with me, so I've at least done my job with the rest of the family.
Just needed to vent. I just don't get it sometimes, this guy is 20 years military, and would love if everyone was disarmed. I left upset, and I'm sure he did, all because I thought my kid was awsome for being into what I'm into.