Bad day, wierd happenings......just a little freaked out

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If the dogs in the kennel weren't upset then it may have just been her imagination from the previous events. The dogs would have sensed someone long before she had.
 
NSF, with your posts and that map you're putting a lot of information concerning your security setup and weaknesses out on a public forum. Does the ex know you're a member here?
 
I live in Lancaster. If ya need a hand with anything, I'm handy with wiring, a hammer and a 12 guage.

Got a nice 5500 Mk II if you're interested.
 
Tommytrauma, i don't think the ex knows this forum even exists. DO you think i should take the maps down anyway because someone else might exploit these weaknesses?

Majic, thats what i would have thought too, but i have gone across the yard at night once to return something after i had left and the dogs were silent. They usually are noisy as all get out. Both our dads seem to think it was her imagination.

P95 and RevDisk, I'll keep your helping hands in mind. I'll have to discuss this in detail with her later.

nsf003
 
reprimand you for taking your guns out? nah. Gonna reprimand you for NOT CALLING THE POLICE.
You had enough reason to be concerned. Should have called them and at least got on the record about it, so when he comes back in the middle of the night to beat you, your shoot will be Good.
 
"Cry havoc, and release the dogs of war."

BTW, dogs are the first line of defense, why are they being caged when they should be outside (if fenced) and if not fenced, why not inside the house instead? I think the situation merits having them at the ready.
 
The whole incident sounds like "Signs" to me. Keep some water handy.
 
"Cry havoc, and release the dogs of war."

BTW, dogs are the first line of defense, why are they being caged when they should be outside (if fenced) and if not fenced, why not inside the house instead? I think the situation merits having them at the ready.

They are her show dogs and she keeps them in the kennel so they are not out in the elements. There are 7 of them(5 in the kennel, 2 outside in boxes) so they are not kept in the house either. Pic of the kennel is here, you can see the light

nsf003
 
You might want to have a lot around both yards. Check for footprints outside your windows (where you heard the tapping noises) and in her yard along where one might walk to get to the kennel. Look for prints that don't match those of the folks whowould normally be there.
 
What else do we know about the ex boyfriend besides "crazy" and a dirty look?

Sure are a lot of calls for a restraining order based on very little info.

Remember, a restraining order=possible removal of 2nd amendment rights without due process.
 
Can't really do much checking for footprints, its been nothing but monsoons lately.

Anyway, here's some past info on the "crazy" ex boyfriend.

Both of these incidents occurred about 3 weeks ago.

Heres a minor thing about the ex boyfriend, he has already threatened to punch me in the face. He didn't say this directly to me, but to others that he knew would tell me. I really was not worried about that because i think he's just blowing smoke. I didn't get all worried or fired up about that

The thing that scared me is this. His little ambush thing. He also knows my girlfriend's routes well enough to park alongside the road and wait for her to come driving by, of which he did at night no less around a blind curve. How he managed to pull it off i don't know, the only thing i could think of was he had another car scout, but i find that unlikely. Anyway, he then pulled out in front of her and drove really slowly, cursing out the window and flipping her off. He then sat at an intersection, flipped her off with one of his friends in the passenger seat, and then sped away.


I have already put a pin in the garage door so it can't be opened from the outside.

nsf003
 
we are in the process of baking a cake when I hear a wierd tapping, like knuckles on a 2x4.

Sounds like an oven heating up.

Good thing you trusted your instincts though! You gotta trust your instincts over everything else. Good luck.
 
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we are in the process of baking a cake when I hear a wierd tapping, like knuckles on a 2x4.
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Sounds like an oven heating up.

But why did they hear it in the bedroom as well?

As a precaution, I went back and grabbed the AR15 and my Mossberg 500 and put them in my room, where we went to talk for a while(so we'd be away from the bigger windows). Later, while talking and relaxing, we hear the tapping again, this time sounding like its right outside my window.

I do agree that the police should have been informed. Any record is helpful.
 
A squirrel in an attic or eave sounds like the aliens are coming to get you. Seriously. It would freak anybody out.

If your motion sensor lights didn't come on, either they don't cover the area very well, it really was nothing, or whoever did it is some kind of ninja. Maybe the slow blade penetrates the shield.

If she really saw the door knob turn (I used to see my bi-fold bedroom doors slowly open throughout the night when I was a kid, but they were never actually open at any point in the night) I can imagine how scary it was. However, on her own property, CCW laws are irrelevant. She could be carrying a pistol around the house, or at least when she walks 50 yards out from the house alone at night. I would. I absolutely would not leave a shotgun out in the kennel where he might find it just by poking around out there--or grab me on my way out, before I get to the kennel and the shotgun.

The dogs, though. . . . it's true. If there were an intruder outside trying to get in, or even faking it to scare her, the dogs should be going nuts. My dogs will literally try to go through windows. If she thought there was an intruder, putting a couple of dogs on leashes and opening the door would do the trick. If there's no one there, you just keep them on the leash. If the dogs are well-enough trained to roam the property, that's better. If there's no intruder when you let them out of the kennel, they'll automatically range out and check the boundaries of "their" property.

More than once I've gone out back to investigate what I thought of as a suspicious noise, only to look down and realize my dogs were playing happily beside me. That told me I probably had nothing to worry about.
 
A squirrel in an attic or eave sounds like the aliens are coming to get you. Seriously. It would freak anybody out.

No motion sensor lights came on, and we have good coverage of my yard. Maybe that was it.


The dogs, though. . . . it's true. If there were an intruder outside trying to get in, or even faking it to scare her, the dogs should be going nuts. My dogs will literally try to go through windows.

Yeah, they usually are all barking like nutcases as soon as someone pulls in the end of the driveway. I have only once been able to go across the yard without them barking, but that was when i had just left and then come back. As i first appeared though, they flipped out hardcore.

I don't know, but I'll be ready either way.


nsf003
 
Strange noises

Sh%t happens, or in this territory the saying is feces occur.

Several years ago I was visiting our camp on an Adirondack lake after the camping season but with the colored leaves in full blaze. Calm. Quiet except for the lapping of the waves around the new boathouse I had built during the summer. No person for miles around. I'm standing in the boat house admiring the work. Then came a tapping. It sounded just like the knuckle on a two by four as has been described above.

The short hair on the back of my neck actually stood up. The tapping was quiet loud and sharp and urgent. Then nothing. Silence.

It was the next year in exactly the same situation that I heard the tapping in the same way again. I could feel my hinder muscles beginning to relax. A trip to the laundry was about to happen.

This time the tapping kept up. I finally found a piece of roofing paper that was bent and nailed in such a way that a very slight breeze would make it bob up and down almost unseen. The edge tapped against a 2 x 4 plate and the hollow structure was an echo chamber.

I wish I could build things like that on purpose. I could keep the whole county terrorized.

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What else do we know about the ex boyfriend besides "crazy" and a dirty look?

Sure are a lot of calls for a restraining order based on very little info.

Remember, a restraining order=possible removal of 2nd amendment rights without due process.

In addition to loss of 2nd amendment rights, I believe that in many situations, restraining orders given out on such flimsy basis will actually escalate the situation and increase the chance for violence.

With as little evidence you have that the ex is dangerous, going the restraining order route is a good way to escalate the situation very quickly.

Years ago an acquaintance of mine broke up with his girlfriend ... she dumped him for a guy that he felt was "less of a man" then he.

He said to a third party that he could "easily break the new boyfriend like a toothpick" and that got back to the ex girlfriend and she used it to get a restraining order.

He never said he would break the guy like a toothpick, just that he was capable of it.


Well because of the restraining order he lost his job (which required a security clearance) and as a result was ruined financially so he went over to the ex-girlfriend's place and broke her new boyfriend like a toothpick.


Had she not over-reacted to the situation and got the restraining order in the first place he would have never even considered violence (not that he isn't an idiot for going over there) Clearly the restraining order did nothing to prevent him from acting out violently, and may very well have caused the violence.
 
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