Bar fight I saw on video - lessons learned

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Hey all,

A friend of mine owns a bar and showed me a video of one of the bar fights that apparently break out pretty often there. There weren't any serious injuries, but I think there's a few things that can be learned from it. I drew a diagram that I can use to describe the action. It would be nice to hear your input. Sorry for the long post, but I don't have access to the video and wanted to make sure everyone understood the situation.

Basically what happened was a man (wearing a red shirt) was minding his own business and didn't appear to be causing any problems when another man (wearing blue) approached him and got in his face. There was no audio, but it was very heated. My friend, who knows some of the parties involved, says that the color of the clothing was probably the main reason this started. A second or two after the initial aggressor got in the victim's face two more (very large) people came from different areas of the bar and attacked the same victim who was being verbally assaulted. The aggressor who attacked from the north on the diagram (red arrow) threw the first punch, immediately after getting within range. The victim was pushed onto the table behind him (note the directional arrow on the diagram) and the three aggressors started punching him. It was a very crowded bar and almost immediately the owner of the bar (my friend) and a few others pulled the aggressors off of the victim and pushed them outside the front door.

In the diagram the victim is represented by the "V" and the initial aggressor is represented by an "A." The two lines of attack by the aggressor's friends are represented by the red and blue arrows. The directional arrow behind the victim indicates the direction that the victim was pushed onto the table.

Initial thoughts:
1) If anyone gets in your face and starts threatening you it would be wise to pay attention to what's happening on your peripherals. If he had seen the aggressor's friends coming he could have escaped to the SE, which opens up onto a larger area. There's no exit there without going behind the bar, but it could have bought him some time.

2) Once they got there he had nowhere to go and almost nothing to do as self-defense. He was immediately pushed onto the table (which collapsed) and was in a horizontal position with three different people pummeling him. I seriously doubt that he would have been able to draw a gun or other weapon from his position. His only chance of doing so would have been if he had a lot of practice in drawing from a horizontal position.

3) The rest of the bar reacted very properly - separating the parties within 2 or 3 seconds. From looking at the footage prior to the attack it looked like most of the people around him were his friends.

4) The aggressors who were kicked outside stuck around. They wouldn't leave for quite a while. The police were called, but it took them a long time to get there. All of the aggressor's friends (the ones wearing the blue shirts) went outside with them and judging by their body language were claiming the area just outside the door as their 'turf.' The friends of the victim (wearing red shirts) made sporadic attempts to push through this area and get outside, but my friend and other peacemakers were largely able to keep the two parties separated. If such a fight breaks out it may be very difficult to leave, as the management's immediate response will be to force the aggressors outside. The aggressors didn't want to lose face by giving ground once they got pushed outside so they stayed put, effectively blocking the only exit.

5) After the initial fight all of the troublemakers wanted to get involved. There were minor shoving matches throughout the bar until closing time. This, combined with number 4 above make a very bad combination. You can't leave the bar without passing through a yelling match, but everyone wants to start fights within the bar too.

Any other thoughts/ideas/screams of outrage?
 

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Ok all games aside(pun), being aware of your peripherals being key, rushing forward through the primary aggressor would have been my choice... fists first.
 
Well, a couple of thoughts-hopefully on topic.

I made pretty good money as a bouncer late in college. I was hired not because of my size, but because I had (have?) a good nature and most importantly could spot those types of situations quickly and could normally difuse them.

Fast forward 20 years to Christmas eve last year; Bar fights can materialize pretty quickly. I was visiting family with my wife over the holidays, and went to a bar with her nephews. College town, college bar, nice kids and fun environment. Next thing I know, some thick-neck has the youngest nephew by the collar with his left hand, and is taking a step back with his right foot to an angle for a punch.

He didn't see me connect on his jaw, but I bet on Christmas morning he wished he had. Be careful, be alert, and if something does happen, get the heck out of there. Things begin to unwind even faster and to a different degree after feelings get hurt. I think this was evidenced above after the "blue shirts" went outside. That's when stabbings, shootings, and other escalated violence normally occurs.

In my situation, I was and still am competely surprised by what took place.


Still, a good clean bar fight is fun :evil:!
 
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A friend of mine owns a bar and showed me a video of one of the bar fights that apparently break out pretty often there.

Your first line of defense is not to be so stupid as go to bars where there are frequent fights.
 
A. Don't go to bars where fights happen.

B. Leave at first sign of problem (get mobile, when he's in your face start moving to exit).

C. Trying to draw a weapon would be a poor choice.

D. Multiple opponents sucks, thats why A-B above are best. If that isn't an option, you need to start injuring one of them, then move to the next, and the next. Injury means something is broken and it will take a MD to fix (if at all).
 
That's why I'm not a bar person.

Amen. The "toughest" guy I'd ever met is partially paralyzed after a bar fight. He stepped outside to trounce a guy who got in his face and ended on the receiving end of a tire iron to the back of the skull...........swung by the other guy's 4'8" 90 pound girlfriend.

I still think the first rule of self-defense is steering clear of questionable places and situations whenever possible.
 
Best bet is to just stay away from bars. It isn't legal in many states to carry concealed in places where alcohol is served anyway.

From John Farnam, a few years ago:

Layers of response:

Years ago, Jeff Cooper delineated the "Color Code" and the "Principles of Personal Defense" in an effort to provide us with a logical model for one's thinking on the subject of mental preparedness. I'd like now to go to the next step and apply the same logic to the issue of personal appearance and demeanor, as we all agree that, in the domestic defensive environment, avoiding a fight is preferable to winning one.

Layer One: Nonattendance. The best way to handle any potentially injurious encounter is: Don't be there. Arrange to be somewhere else. Don't go to stupid places. Don't associate with stupid people. Don't do stupid things. This is the advice I give to all students of defensive firearms. Winning a gunfight, or any other potentially injurious encounter, is financially and emotionally burdensome. The aftermath will become your full-time job for weeks or months afterward, and you will quickly grow weary of writing checks to lawyer(s). It is, of course, better than being dead or suffering a permanently disfiguring or disabling injury, but the "penalty" for successfully fighting for your life is still formidable.


http://www.defense-training.com/quips/2003/19Mar03.html

lpl/nc
 
I agree with everything Mr. Lapin said.

This is still a free country and its citizens should not have to be concerned with the color of their clothing or the bandana in their hip pocket.

My neighborhood has changed drastically in the last thirty years. I refuse to move to make more room for the pimps, pushers, and prostitutes.

Vehicle breakin incidents are fairly common as is vehicle theft...even in the driveway. Gunfire is fairly common, not that I ofject to the sound , but at 'past midnight-dark thirty', it ain't your uncle treating you to a version of 'snipe hunting'.

If we have to modify our clothing, or the clothing of our kids in public school, our favorite food joints, or our place of residence to accomodate an ever growing mentality of 'flee to the surburbs' escape, the BG's have won.

Fortunately, there are still a couple of BBQ, Tex-Mex, and Soul Food joints within reasonable driving distance.

They aren't going to run me off.

salty.
 
When I was command duty officer on USS Ranger in port San Diego, I received a phone call from a very upset father of one of our sailors demanding that the Navy provide a defense attorney for his son who was being held in a St Louis jail on a murder charge.

It seems his son on leave went to a bar with some friends and encountered his ex-girlfriend and her friends. The sailor and his ex-girlfriend did not break up their relationship on friendly terms and she harbored a big grudge.

It also seems she was great at playing "Let's you (current boyfriend) and him (ex-boyfriend) fight." The sailor didn't listen to his friends and just leave.

Sailor's friends did leave as current boyfriend seemed to have lots of friends. Sailor was getting the crap kicked out of him by current boyfriend and others when sailor pulled out his knife.

Current boyfriend bled out quickly as heart was perforated.

Pilgrim

A. Don't go to bars where fights happen.

B. Leave at first sign of problem (get mobile, when he's in your face start moving to exit).

C. Trying to draw a weapon would be a poor choice.

D. Multiple opponents sucks, thats why A-B above are best. If that isn't an option, you need to start injuring one of them, then move to the next, and the next. Injury means something is broken and it will take a MD to fix (if at all).
 
Scouting..

Even a rabbit has two holes to choose from... Physical position is key, the old saw comes to mind, "I always sit facing the door". Beinging in control at all times is the goal, when aggressor got in his face he must move to control the action, "cover your six" clear the way out etc. His response to the aggression was what?
 
I agree with the people advocating avoidance. I have never read anything by John Farnam till now, but he sounds like a gosh-darn genius to me.
 
Your friends bar may end up being his "former bar" if someone is seriously injured and your buddy is named in the lawsuit. Since the establishment has a history of violence he may want to consider changing the atmosphere before he finds himself in trouble.

Don't forget how being sued works: while the victim normally goes after the deepest pockets sometimes several, more shallow pockets will work...your friend's included.

What you and I think of his culpability is irrelevant, many a good person has been financially ruined due to a seemingly frivolous lawsuit.

As others have said, I, too, don't frequent bars. Too many unknowns. If I want to drink with my friends I have them over. Guess what. No problems of any kind.

Be careful,
DFW1911
 
Don't go to stupid places. Don't associate with stupid people. Don't do stupid things.


thanks for the quote Lee Lapin....that is one I have heard and often spread as gospel. I heard it years ago and without knowing the original source I was still struck by the obvious clarity and truth of it. Sometimes bad things happen...even when and where they shouldn't. But MOST times you can see it coming a mile away. certain neigborhoods or parking lots after dark. Certain clubs/bars. (clubs bars period after certain hours on the weekends) I can protect myself in most situations....but in many situations if I have to protect myself with deadly force (or even just force) I've made a poor decision that has put me there. I honestly believe 90% of all force encounters can be avoided or diffused with talking/apropriate action. 9.9% of the time a well timed display that you are ready and prepared to go "to the mat" with whatever force is called for backs them down (most criminals are cowards and opertunists afterall...self preservation is high on their priority list). the other 1/10 of a percent of the time is what we train for...to be able to respond as needed and apropriately for the situation at hand.

I hope I never have to hurt or worse put down another human being. But if my hand is forced I deffinately want to be WAY better at it than the bad guy(s) And there is no reason to play fair as far as I'm concerned. I also want everyone I know and love to be way better at it than the bad guy(s) If 1 in 10 people had this disposition I think there would be either fewer bad guys or less crime...perhaps both. :D
 
(most criminals are cowards and opertunists afterall...self preservation is high on their priority list)

True but alcohol and friends that are willing to back you up give instant courage.

As a former non drinking bouncer, the levels of drunken stupidity I have witnessed is unbelievable..
 
Layer One: Nonattendance. The best way to handle any potentially injurious encounter is: Don't be there. Arrange to be somewhere else. Don't go to stupid places. Don't associate with stupid people. Don't do stupid things.

I'm in the process of that, its harder than it sounds.
 
Your friends bar may end up being his "former bar" if someone is seriously injured and your buddy is named in the lawsuit. Since the establishment has a history of violence he may want to consider changing the atmosphere before he finds himself in trouble.

He's been trying to change the atmosphere for a long time. It's easier said than done.

As far as the 'don't go to bars' comments I don't think we should let thugs determine what we choose to do with our time. Myself, I'm not very comfortable in bars and usually choose to entertain at home. But for someone who does like that kind of thing maybe there are other options. I mean, what if you just like to dance? Maybe a combination of situational awareness and having friends around is enough?
 
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