Somethingbenign is suggesting the right approach to finding a revolver for concealed carry. Go to a gun range that rents different manufacturer's models and spend the money to try all of them out before buying.
Additional suggestions to consider-
1) Caliber-you've been shooting 9mm in a full size. A revolver chambered for 38 special, 38 special +P, or 357 magnum will give you a far more effective self-defense round than a .380. Recoil is manageable, depending on the gun frame and design, which leads to-
2) Gun frame-as mentioned by some of the guys in this thread, lightweight revolvers chambered in an effective round (my favorite is 38 Special +P) are a challenge to handle. For some shooters, putting 200 rounds down range in a practice session, leaves your hand feeling like you hit it continuously with a ball peen hammer! You won't be motivated to practice enough to be good with your firearm. Some of the guys here carry steel frame revolvers (S&W, Ruger make good ones), and in the right holster, the additional weight won't be noticeable. But the recoil absorbing nature of a heavier frame will make it easier to practice with, and shoot better. When I carry a revolver, it's a Ruger SP101, hammerless 2.25 barrel. The steel frame easily handles 357 magnum loads, and handles the 38 SP +P even better. S&W revolvers mentioned here are also great guns. While I don't own any Taurus firearms, I have shot their revolvers and really like the construction and feel, and consider them good value for their price-take a look at the Model 85 series (steel frames). You'll probably find a new one fits your budget the same way a used S&W or Ruger would.
3) Trigger management-lots of folks who shoot semi-auto very well find the trigger pull length a challenge on revolvers. You may find you have the same experience when renting and shooting revolvers as you search for the one you want. You'll find it takes lots of practice to get used to the revolver, so that's why you want a gun that dampens recoil so you enjoy shooting.
Hope this helps.
Have fun looking for your next gun.