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Please take this in the spirit of 'we have to work with what we have'; the old joke is 'If I had known I was going to live this long, I would have taken better care of myself!'
My wife and I are both 62. Neither of us has ever been an athlete; we're computer and math nerds. We wear glasses, we're starting to get joint pains, we take a fair amount pf prescribed medications. In short, we're getting old and we don't have a lot of material to work with.
(An aside: yes, we both have had martial arts training; for a very brief span, either of us might be a nasty surprise to an attacker, but youth and conditioning are powerful advantages in hand-to-hand.)
But we would like to get older. And we don't choose to be hermits.
We also have a significant drawback - we live in California, in a county that essentially does not issue CCW. That may change in a year or two; I'm part of the Calguns Foundation project that is working toward that goal. But for a year or more, legally carrying a firearm for self-defense, the part of the solution that tends to even out old and young(er) people, is out of our reach.
We do own suitable CCW guns, we do practice, we have already the proper mindset - we're just unable to use the tools legally due to the issuing policy in our county (and all the nearby counties are just as bad or worse).
No, we cannot move, for personal, job and family reasons, and because I want to stay here and get the verdammt laws changed.
So, if we intend to go places together, our overall strategy has to be something other than engaging, other than combat.
"Don't go to bad places" is obviously the first thing; that one we have under control, though there are some 'choke points'.
For example, we go to Giants games, day and night, in San Francisco. With around 40,000 people coming in and going out, and lots of police presence, right around the park is fairly safe.
The vulnerable spot is probably BART, our commuter train/subway system; while it's moving, there is simply no exit, except to another car on the train. Other than staying alert to see things coming, I don't see a lot we can do there - but perhaps you do.
Similarly, sometimes we go to a symphony concert or a play in the city; in those cases there is a several-block walk between BART and the event. How can we walk safely, observe carefully and anticipate problems so we can avoid them?
I'm already a big fan of Marc MacYoung's No Nonsense Self Defense; my major concern is robbery, and the possible complications of robbery. (I used to lament the lack of professionalism among modern robbers: sheep are for shearing, so they can be released to be sheared again.)
What else should we know? What should we practice?
ETA: How can we reinforce and complement each other in awareness and defensive/evasive movement?
My wife and I are both 62. Neither of us has ever been an athlete; we're computer and math nerds. We wear glasses, we're starting to get joint pains, we take a fair amount pf prescribed medications. In short, we're getting old and we don't have a lot of material to work with.
(An aside: yes, we both have had martial arts training; for a very brief span, either of us might be a nasty surprise to an attacker, but youth and conditioning are powerful advantages in hand-to-hand.)
But we would like to get older. And we don't choose to be hermits.
We also have a significant drawback - we live in California, in a county that essentially does not issue CCW. That may change in a year or two; I'm part of the Calguns Foundation project that is working toward that goal. But for a year or more, legally carrying a firearm for self-defense, the part of the solution that tends to even out old and young(er) people, is out of our reach.
We do own suitable CCW guns, we do practice, we have already the proper mindset - we're just unable to use the tools legally due to the issuing policy in our county (and all the nearby counties are just as bad or worse).
No, we cannot move, for personal, job and family reasons, and because I want to stay here and get the verdammt laws changed.
So, if we intend to go places together, our overall strategy has to be something other than engaging, other than combat.
"Don't go to bad places" is obviously the first thing; that one we have under control, though there are some 'choke points'.
For example, we go to Giants games, day and night, in San Francisco. With around 40,000 people coming in and going out, and lots of police presence, right around the park is fairly safe.
The vulnerable spot is probably BART, our commuter train/subway system; while it's moving, there is simply no exit, except to another car on the train. Other than staying alert to see things coming, I don't see a lot we can do there - but perhaps you do.
Similarly, sometimes we go to a symphony concert or a play in the city; in those cases there is a several-block walk between BART and the event. How can we walk safely, observe carefully and anticipate problems so we can avoid them?
I'm already a big fan of Marc MacYoung's No Nonsense Self Defense; my major concern is robbery, and the possible complications of robbery. (I used to lament the lack of professionalism among modern robbers: sheep are for shearing, so they can be released to be sheared again.)
What else should we know? What should we practice?
ETA: How can we reinforce and complement each other in awareness and defensive/evasive movement?
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