"Recoil does not bother me at all and I like man-handling big guns that shoot big rounds. It makes me feel like a man. Anybody else feel this way?"
some do
some don't
some guys find handling soft and smooth to be particularly pleasing
some guys prefer harder and stiffer actions
whatever tinkles your wind chimes, different strokes for different folks
I have always been real partial to soft and squeezable, myself
all a matter of individual preference, I reckon
to each his own
My all-time favorite hand load has always been
38 caliber,
24 mm case length, with
38 /10 grain of very
slow burning powder, but that's just me
Not for everybody, you know, not something you could just expect to pick up off-the-shelf, but well worth the time spent developing a consistent and highly accurate load for
and very consistent, over a wide range of bullet grain weights, if loaded with patience and careful attention, a surprisingly fast round, yet soft shooting, minimal recoil, yet with sometimes spectacular results, even though a bit prone to fragmentation if loaded just a little bit too hot
(versatile, too, works pretty much the same out of short or long barrels)
JHP or JSP will do, but given the nature of the load, I find that FMJ yields better penetration. YMMV may vary, of course.
PS
no matter how much fun a Big Bang may be, there is still a lot to be said for soft and slow, you know