Yeah, I kinda wanna avoid wherever you're living, too, sm.
I'm not being argumentative, I am being a Mentor.
Yes, I was raised into a hi-risk lifestyle, and had mentors and elders that were familiar with this industry, and other professions.
I was born in the mid fifties, and lessons started as a wee brat on things.
I also had "knacks", meaning I exhibited some things that were useful for staying safe.
The key to being safe, is blending in.
Little things like "reading a room" and "giving the perception" one needs to give.
Re: College.
Older returning student here.
I the past 12 months, I have been on campus with I think 3, maybe 4 bomb threats, and 3 school shootings.
Re: Indiana.
Yes, I have been to Indy.
I know how the farmers dress, and nobody gives a second look seeing a Buck 110, or Shrade LB7 in a sheath, in areas.
Heck, some "city thugs" won't come down as them ladies and gents know how to do a "pop" and will have that knife out so fast , one handed, it will scare folks.
Then "country folks, play for keeps!"
Oh yes, folks were getting lock blades out and ready to go one handed , extremely fast, decades ago.
One can beat a switchblade with a Buck 110 or clone.
Re: Switchblades.
Knives designed with ladies in mind were abused and stereotyped as being "evil" and were banned.
Folks are doing the "Switchblade Syndrome" with tactical knives today.
Quite a few places do not allow them in workplaces, or campuses.
The wording of knife laws on the books already, are being interpreted to deny these tactical knives in some places.
You teach folks how to treat you - mentor.
Just like switchblades, folks are teaching how they want to be treated with tacticals.
It is not where I live, but where I have been, seen and done.
Yes, I currently am near a bad spot on the map.
I have lived in a one stop sign town, where I could leave a vehicle unlocked, with the keys in the ignition and never lock the house.
Two major cities were off limits to me. New York and Chicago.
The exception was, "serious" had happened.
Some was kidnapped, dead or the like.
Bonded and Insured as I was, those two cities were off limits.
I could not travel in the same conveyance as some folks, not eat at the same place they did, or stay in the same hotel, much less visit them at their home.
I am going back a lot of years.
Houston, Dallas, Oklahoma City, Pittsburgh, Philadelphia, Miami, Atlanta, Memphis, New Orleans...etc.
I have stood and looked at New York, a state I was not supposed to be in.
Hit the road, head across PA to West Virginia, take OH , then head down KY.
Just near the KY Speedway, change vehicles, as I did not want to "give perceptions" , of being out of town and head onto into TN.
Change vehicles along the way and end up in Key West.
Before that long bridge leaving the mainland, about 8 cars were busted into at a hotel, everyone had out of state tags.
I am running FL tags, and I did not get popped.
Drive back up, hop a plane and land in MS. Now I run the "low route" and head east . When leave Shreveport, and the vehicle with LA tags, I have TX tags, as I am heading to Belmont, Galveston, Houston, Waco, Dallas and up to OK city where I get a vehicle with OK tags.
Not rental cars, not for the most part, business vehicles.
While I had my folks in the business, and had partners, and for me lady partners quite a bit, I worked Solo a lot.
It ain't where I live, instead where I have been, seen and done.
Blending in, giving perceptions, and staying atop dirt, and not six feet under it.
Now criminals know this, so I am not worried about posting it in public.
I still cannot believe some cops still do this...and it is not because I have not done my part in correcting it.
One of the hardest things about getting a cop going undercover, or just wearing plain-clothes, is to not advertise they are a cop.
I do not do well with rules and regulations anyway, still common sense should kick in...
I have walked into a place, and knew that person was a cop. Not in uniform, maybe someone new to UC, or plainclothes to assist me and mine.
Heck all the thugs knew they were cops.
Ink Pen.
Just like these knives were are talking about, the Ink Pen made them.
Cross Ink Pens were part of the uniform.
Chrome for patrol, 10k yellow gold filled for some ranks and the 14kygf for higher ups.
Sterling Silver and Gold ones for some special higher up deals.
I have made 'em from Patrol to Captain, all because of a Cross Ink Pen.
Like I said, the hardest thing is getting a cop to not act like a cop, or former active Military, to not act Military.
Prostitutes, Pimps, and Madame's will read a person so fast it will make your head spin.
Street gals will turn away as they know you from a distance. You are either bad news ( beat gals up) , broke, married and you are going to regret what you are thinking, out of town low life...
Some will set up you up for a fall. They read you a mile away and they want that Rolex, diamond ring, bracelet, cash, ...
Hi-class escorts will too. Both kinds of gals working the legal gambling places such as horse racing, or casino's, and nice hotels where business meetings are held.
That sweet thang will saddle up, and hang on your arm as you toss dice. She pegged you two steps after you entered the Casino.
Now I have no idea what tee-vee shows portray, or current movies, or video games...
I do have an idea what is in the real world, and one is folks really do read people, places and things.
I do.
I was raised to do this.
Criminals do this too.
Don't look like prey - think like a criminal.