ShooterMcGavin
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I want to go on record, because I know most of you will make this clear in your response: ...I agree, if she can't stand that I have/carry a gun, I will happily move on.
Have you ever started, or hoped to start, a relationship with a girl, only to have it go downhill quickly when she found out that you own and/or carry a gun/guns??
My story:
I went on a date last weekend. It was a first-date and the first I have ever carried on, and she didn't have the slightest clue that there was a gun in our midst (success ) We went out to eat, hugged a few times, and cuddled on the couch for a while (with my full-size M&P40 at my 4 o'clock and her at 3 o'clock). I am very happy that the gun remained out of our minds. I have to add to this story... I don't see a real future with this girl, and I am not concerned about it in the least.
We just got off the phone. She told me that one of her friends was threatened recently, etc., etc. I mentioned that, personally, I think girls should carry pepper spray, a knife, a gun, or whatever they feel comfortable with. She told me that she could not carry a gun; she has shot one but would like to feel more comfortable. I offered to take her to the range. She asked if I have a gun, so I let the cat out of the bag. I told her that I had a gun on me for the whole night when we went out. She couldn't believe it. She gave the usual comments... "why did you have a gun with you?", "do you really think you need it?", "there are worse places to be", "it's West Seattle, it's not that bad". I explained my reasons and she seemed to listen. I explained that I have a license to carry concealed, but I could have done more to explain what that means. I wouldn't label her an "anti" immediately, but she does sound like the fear-propaganda has given her some serious questions about anyone who carries a gun
She talked about the chances of someone breaking into your house, claiming that it was very unlikely and that a gun would only escalate the situation, etc. I gave her a couple stats about "hot" break-ins and she changed the topic to accidental shootings. She said that the risk was not worth it. I'm guessing she means, the risk of someone being shot because "the gun just went off". I told her that accidental shootings were very rare, considering the frequency of gun-use (both good and bad). She responded, "I don't want to talk about this any more; I feel like we are getting into an argument". I said, "that's fine; I'd be happy to talk about it any time if you want.", and I changed the subject. She then had to get off the phone pretty quickly. I wonder if she still wants to head to the range some time. We'll see
Have you ever started, or hoped to start, a relationship with a girl, only to have it go downhill quickly when she found out that you own and/or carry a gun/guns??
My story:
I went on a date last weekend. It was a first-date and the first I have ever carried on, and she didn't have the slightest clue that there was a gun in our midst (success ) We went out to eat, hugged a few times, and cuddled on the couch for a while (with my full-size M&P40 at my 4 o'clock and her at 3 o'clock). I am very happy that the gun remained out of our minds. I have to add to this story... I don't see a real future with this girl, and I am not concerned about it in the least.
We just got off the phone. She told me that one of her friends was threatened recently, etc., etc. I mentioned that, personally, I think girls should carry pepper spray, a knife, a gun, or whatever they feel comfortable with. She told me that she could not carry a gun; she has shot one but would like to feel more comfortable. I offered to take her to the range. She asked if I have a gun, so I let the cat out of the bag. I told her that I had a gun on me for the whole night when we went out. She couldn't believe it. She gave the usual comments... "why did you have a gun with you?", "do you really think you need it?", "there are worse places to be", "it's West Seattle, it's not that bad". I explained my reasons and she seemed to listen. I explained that I have a license to carry concealed, but I could have done more to explain what that means. I wouldn't label her an "anti" immediately, but she does sound like the fear-propaganda has given her some serious questions about anyone who carries a gun
She talked about the chances of someone breaking into your house, claiming that it was very unlikely and that a gun would only escalate the situation, etc. I gave her a couple stats about "hot" break-ins and she changed the topic to accidental shootings. She said that the risk was not worth it. I'm guessing she means, the risk of someone being shot because "the gun just went off". I told her that accidental shootings were very rare, considering the frequency of gun-use (both good and bad). She responded, "I don't want to talk about this any more; I feel like we are getting into an argument". I said, "that's fine; I'd be happy to talk about it any time if you want.", and I changed the subject. She then had to get off the phone pretty quickly. I wonder if she still wants to head to the range some time. We'll see