I agree. And it generally gets worse with every larger city you encounter as you go further south. Granted, they are no worse than most big cities, but I'm not interested in living in ANY of those human anthills (but I'm beyond THRILLED that so many people in this country are content to live in there).Agreed, Amelia is still laid back, but just down A1A or I-95 is Jacksonville and it's a zoo.
I often say, and this is not derogatory but just my opinion from having traveled all over the state, that the best place to live in FL is as near to out of FL as you can get.