Mark Benningfield
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Hello All.
Okay, here's the deal. I've always done my best to teach my children how to think and how to spot flaws in reasoning. I also spend a good deal of time teaching them actual history, to counter the revisionist clap-trap they run into in school and in the media. My oldest has already had several run-ins with his history "teachers" and, by the way, has come out on top, with a little help from me and a couple of parent-teacher meetings.
The problem, though, is not with his teachers. It is with his maternal grandfather (my ex-wife's father). Over the Christmas holiday, my oldest was talking to his grandfather about guns and rights, and he said that when he is old enough, he is going to get his own Concealed Carry license. His grandfather proceeded to tell him that there is no need for anyone to carry a gun; if everyone carried a gun the streets would be like the Wild West; and that he was brainwashed (ostensibly by me ).
Now, since I don't believe a boy should have to listen to anyone run down his kinfolks without being able to take a swing at them, I don't disparage his mother or anyone on her side of the family. I also believe that a boy should be able to trust the elder men in his family, so:
How do I teach him that his grandfather is one of the sheeple? How do I show him that such a position for a grown man is contemptible, without him losing the respect for his elders that he must have? Anyone else run into this problem?
Okay, here's the deal. I've always done my best to teach my children how to think and how to spot flaws in reasoning. I also spend a good deal of time teaching them actual history, to counter the revisionist clap-trap they run into in school and in the media. My oldest has already had several run-ins with his history "teachers" and, by the way, has come out on top, with a little help from me and a couple of parent-teacher meetings.
The problem, though, is not with his teachers. It is with his maternal grandfather (my ex-wife's father). Over the Christmas holiday, my oldest was talking to his grandfather about guns and rights, and he said that when he is old enough, he is going to get his own Concealed Carry license. His grandfather proceeded to tell him that there is no need for anyone to carry a gun; if everyone carried a gun the streets would be like the Wild West; and that he was brainwashed (ostensibly by me ).
Now, since I don't believe a boy should have to listen to anyone run down his kinfolks without being able to take a swing at them, I don't disparage his mother or anyone on her side of the family. I also believe that a boy should be able to trust the elder men in his family, so:
How do I teach him that his grandfather is one of the sheeple? How do I show him that such a position for a grown man is contemptible, without him losing the respect for his elders that he must have? Anyone else run into this problem?