A couple of weeks ago 'i wrote about fending off a home invasion at a friend's with a gun. No shots were fire, no one was injured, and the bad guys were gone in a hurry.
For me the after affects are small. a slightly raised level of alertness and a small increase in overall confidence. But there have been major effects for her.
Perhaps because shed doesn't yet have a gun, she keeps flashing back to what could of happened if neither of us had been armed. This is a very frightening thought for her and is why she is getting one. In Michigan, I can't loan her a pistol, she has to get her own. We are going to the range today with a different assortment of guns to try to figure out what would be beat for her. If she can't afford one that works for her, I will help her out.
The biggest problem for her has been the reaction of others. I know this will come as no surprise to those of us who are long term members of the gun fraternity, but there are many people out there who would rather someone die than be defended by a gun. While her family has been supportive of her, some friends, acquaintances, ands co-workers have been very critical of her, and by extension, me. I don't know these people and I don't care what they think, but she is hurt and angry. She believes that she has already lost some friends because she refused to agree with them that having the gun was wrong. She has had to endure the usual range of stupid and self-righteous comments from "you should have called 911" to "having a gun just escalated the danger of violence." She has not backed down from any of these people, after all, she was there and saw what happened. She said to one of the 911 proponents that 911 would have been a great solution because the police could have gotten there while her body was still fresh, and had a better chance of getting good clues, or maybe catching the bag guys as they were leaving.
For me the after affects are small. a slightly raised level of alertness and a small increase in overall confidence. But there have been major effects for her.
Perhaps because shed doesn't yet have a gun, she keeps flashing back to what could of happened if neither of us had been armed. This is a very frightening thought for her and is why she is getting one. In Michigan, I can't loan her a pistol, she has to get her own. We are going to the range today with a different assortment of guns to try to figure out what would be beat for her. If she can't afford one that works for her, I will help her out.
The biggest problem for her has been the reaction of others. I know this will come as no surprise to those of us who are long term members of the gun fraternity, but there are many people out there who would rather someone die than be defended by a gun. While her family has been supportive of her, some friends, acquaintances, ands co-workers have been very critical of her, and by extension, me. I don't know these people and I don't care what they think, but she is hurt and angry. She believes that she has already lost some friends because she refused to agree with them that having the gun was wrong. She has had to endure the usual range of stupid and self-righteous comments from "you should have called 911" to "having a gun just escalated the danger of violence." She has not backed down from any of these people, after all, she was there and saw what happened. She said to one of the 911 proponents that 911 would have been a great solution because the police could have gotten there while her body was still fresh, and had a better chance of getting good clues, or maybe catching the bag guys as they were leaving.