How Sandy Hook Affected One Non-Gun-Guy

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It’s time for Plan B; arm and train law-abiding citizens

By Mark Saal
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Sun, 01/06/2013 - 8:43am

It’s time we had a serious talk about guns in this country.

Not that you’ll be getting one here. I mean, clearly, I am not the appropriate person — by any stretch of the imagination — to be discussing our Second Amendment rights.

Why? Because I suspect that I’m just a little too level-headed for the conversation. After all, I seem to be one of the few people who believes that both sides of this issue have compelling, valid arguments, and that the solution lies somewhere in between. Whereas, most folks weighing in on gun control tend to hold one of two extreme viewpoints:

• People who like guns are crazy conservative zealots who marinate in government conspiracy theories and place their silly Second Amendment right to own weapons of moderate-mass destruction above the safety of our children.

• People who don’t like guns are liberal pansies who spit upon America and the Constitution and place the illusion of public safety ahead of freedom.
Nobody’s willing to concede that maybe the issue is a bit more nuanced than the caricatures of a Wild West firearm free-for-all vs. a dystopian future wherein the government has managed to enslave us by prying all weapons of defense from our cold, dead hands.

First things first. You should know that I hate guns, with a passion generally reserved for reality TV shows and these depressing winter temperature inversions. I’m 53 years old, and can count on one hand my total lifetime shooting experiences.

And in all of that time, I’ve never understood America’s fascination with firearms. I wish guns didn’t even exist. If I could somehow wave a magic wand and make them all disappear, I’d do it in a heartbeat. I know that I could be perfectly happy in a world without firearms.

But that isn’t going to happen, any more than a world without nuclear weapons is in the cards.

So it’s time for Plan B. And Plan B involves good, honest, responsible, relatively mentally stable, law-abiding folks like me becoming proficient with firearms and being prepared.

Here’s the deal: I plan on taking firearms safety and concealed-carry permit classes. And then, when my fear of guns has been replaced with healthy doses of respect and proficiency, I’m going to buy a couple of firearms.
No, I don’t believe I’m going to have to shoot it out with my government, nor guard my two years’ supply of Little Debbie snack cakes from my armed-to-the-teeth neighbors. And I’m not banking on some sort of zombie apocalypse, either.

But I do think it’s time I accepted more responsibility for my own safety.
I also find it laughable that so many gun owners are unwilling to have even the most basic of conversations about gun control, for fear it sets us on some sort of “slippery slope” toward total disarmament. While your average, law-abiding citizen should be able to buy a gun, I think we can all agree that the process should be a little more difficult than, say, ordering the Gorditas at a Taco Bell takeout window.

You wanna own guns, or carry them in public? Fine. But it doesn’t seem too much to ask that you show a high degree of competency for such privileges.
And you thought owning a puppy was a big responsibility.

So why my one-eighty on guns? In the end, it was the Sandy Hooks Elementary School shooting that became the proverbial straw on the camel’s back.

In that tragedy’s aftermath, I kept coming back to one inescapable thought: Once that cowardly shooter got inside the school, what’s the one thing — aside from him having an immediate, massive stroke right there on the spot — that I could have hoped for? Someone to stop him as quickly as possible, with a minimal loss of life. A trained police officer, preferably. But next best? Any sort of competent, caring adult who had been drilled in the use of firearms, had access to them and was willing to take on the grave responsibility of protecting innocent lives.

Of course, there are those who would say that having an armed and trained teacher in the school only would have made things worse. Really? With 20 children and six adults murdered in cold blood, I’m struggling to picture how an armed teacher could have possibly made things worse. Even a teacher-assailant shootout, with the very real possibility of a stray bullet finding an innocent victim, seems preferable to a killer calmly walking — unmolested — through a school, methodically shooting children and unarmed adults at point-blank range until: A) He runs completely out of ammunition; or B) Law enforcement finally arrives to stop him.

Look, I’ve got no cowboy complex here, no desire to be a hero. But guns aren’t going anywhere anytime soon, and all I know is that if my preschool-age grandson had been at that school, I’d want somebody — anybody — to do something. Anything.

So then, until we’re able to figure out a better way to keep more guns out of the hands of bad people? Sorry, but I just think it’s time we started putting more guns in the hands of good people.

http://www.standard.net/stories/2013...iding-citizens
 
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I know that I could be perfectly happy in a world without firearms.
Well, I guess I can't fault him for such a silly thought, since he seems to have realized it for the childish naiivete it is.

But I do think it’s time I accepted more responsibility for my own safety.
Yup, just like accepting responsibility to follow a budget and spend wisely. Many people have to get deep in debt and cut up cards to realize this, many people only begin to consider self-defense after an attack on themselves or loved ones. Leaving behind the innocence of childhood to accept (and thrive in) the real world. Personal responsibility has been very weakly promoted among my peers for at least the 25 years I've been on this Earth. Luckily, my family understood the importance of being your own keeper once you move out of the house, and made sure I would handle my business. Sometimes you have to do chores you don't enjoy, and bear responsibilities you don't desire. I, too, wish dearly I had no cause to prepare for my personal defense.

You wanna own guns, or carry them in public? Fine. But it doesn’t seem too much to ask that you show a high degree of competency for such privileges.
I've never understood this. No one cries loudly for such "competency" for drivers. No one demands kids earn a deploma before being allowed to work, even though we all know it makes for more effective citizens. And yet, a simple machine requires "a high degree of competency" before we can be trusted with it. We should promote gun training programs, and shun those who forsake their training. But ultimately, the degree of skill you feel the need for with a weapon is a personal decision. Plenty of Samurai were not swordsman, but carried swords anyway. Once bought, it is the user's responsibility to see that they know how to use their weapon safely. Ignorance is not a defense against a negligent discharge. I would be for requiring all gun dealers to inform their customers of the basic safety laws at point of sale--but that's it.

TCB
 
Of course, there are those who would say that having an armed and trained teacher in the school only would have made things worse. Really? With 20 children and six adults murdered in cold blood, I’m struggling to picture how an armed teacher could have possibly made things worse. Even a teacher-assailant shootout, with the very real possibility of a stray bullet finding an innocent victim, seems preferable to a killer calmly walking — unmolested — through a school, methodically shooting children and unarmed adults at point-blank range until: A) He runs completely out of ammunition; or B) Law enforcement finally arrives to stop him.

Profoundly true. I really can't understand how many people fail to see this!
 
I hope he and others like him can find inexpensive access to qualified instructors and range time to boot.
 
or a good friend to teach him how to shoot

That's what turned me around: a good friend (and his family) who made convincing arguments, and showed proper respect for the lethality of his weapons. Before that it seemed like only crazy people had guns, only criminals wanted them.

Teach a liberal to shoot day. That my friend bothered to share this holiday with me might save my life one day, or it might save someone else's. Hopefully I will never need to do either, and I can enjoy plinking away at the range instead, and doing the 1001 other things that I enjoy instead. At the very least I got over my silly fear of guns. At the very worst, I have a problem with collecting too many of them. Put it on your calendar, it's whenever you want an extra holiday. If your circumstances merit, you can celebrate teach a conservative to shoot day, or teach (fill in the blank of your choice) to shoot day. Just try always to be a good ambassador for the shooting sports and for those of us who value the right to look after our own defense when necessary.
 
Sounds like somebody is finally starting to wake up. I'm not impressed by the fact that he's 53 years old. So what? That does not make anyone an expert on anything. Especially when you profess a baseless, visceral hatred and fear of an inanimate object, like a firearm, and then claim to be "level headed". Umm, okay. Some children are scared of trees too, but then they grow up. That may be a little harsh, but the world is not a happy utopia, and won't ever be. We can try to make it that way for our kids, at least a little bit, by having the adults realize the truth of the matter, and protect them. That's OUR responsibility.

That being said, he admitted his fear, has decided to deal with it, and has come to realize the truth of the situation. That's good. It may have been a little late, but maybe not TOO late. It seems that humans and civilization have to keep learning the same lessons over and over again.

As far as his "extreme viewpoints" are concerned, between those who are supposedly paranoid because of the "slippery slope" incrementalism of losing your rights, vs. the utopian view of having no weapons, I'll simply say this: In history, there has never been a utopia, but there has been the disarming of populations and the killing of millions who have not had the means to resist those that would do them harm. That's not theory, that's fact.

Gun control has NEVER led to any kind of utopia, but it HAS led to oppression, death, and misery. Why would not wanting to repeat bad history be "paranoid". Why can't that just be "prudent planning"? Our founders already knew that, and nothing has changed.
 
FROM THE COMMENTARY - "I also find it laughable that so many gun owners are unwilling to have even the most basic of conversations about gun control, for fear it sets us on some sort of “slippery slope” toward total disarmament. While your average, law-abiding citizen should be able to buy a gun, I think we can all agree that the process should be a little more difficult than, say, ordering the Gorditas at a Taco Bell takeout window."


This is a standard, highly disingenuous bit of disinformation used constantly by the anti-gun crowd. It's as if there were NO "gun control" laws on the books now. In fact, there are over 22,000 Federal, State, and local anti-gun laws in effect, and yet the far left crowd, politicians and extremely biased media constantly throw out that nonsense to brainwash the uninformed so they'll say, "Golly, gee whiz! No gun control laws?? We gotta do something about all those guns! Pass more anti-guns laws now!"

Glad the man has finally decided to be responsible for his own family and himself... unlike most liberals who scream, "I can't be responsible for myself. Big Brother and Big Nanny, save me!"

It appears he is at last on the correct path... if he follows through.

L.W.
 
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All we need are more ****** bags like this guy who thinks his type of gun is "moral" but another guy's firearm must be banned or heavily regulated.
 
OP:

Thank you for sharing that article. The author has a way to go, but has taken one serious first step, and I believe he (and other converts like him) will be an invaluable resource as we try to educate fence-sitters, one at a time.

From much of what I have been reading/hearing lately, many Americans, when faced with the stark reality of the choices available, are starting to actually listen.

Of at least equal importance is that the anti's platitudes are being seen for what they are...empty, hysterical rhetoric.

I will be forwarding it to everyone on my mailing list. It contains a number of people of divergent political views, and the welcome it gets will be interesting. I have taken most of those people for one-on-one range sessions within the last five years, and still have a list of more to take.
 
You wanna own guns, or carry them in public? Fine. But it doesn’t seem too much to ask that you show a high degree of competency for such privileges.
And you thought owning a puppy was a big responsibility.

Sounds like he's coming along nicely, but still has a ways to go. Driving is a privilege, hence it can be registered, licensed, administered, revoked and suspended. A civil right cannot, even though it is.
 
Sounds like somebody is finally starting to wake up. I'm not impressed by the fact that he's 53 years old. So what? That does not make anyone an expert on anything. Especially when you profess a baseless, visceral hatred and fear of an inanimate object, like a firearm, and then claim to be "level headed".

his fear may not be baseless at all. He doesn't elaborate on his fear at all. It may be based in something concrete. He may be afraid because of the inherent recoil, the noise, the muzzle blast. While overcomable, these are all things we accept as possible causes of a flinch, maybe one or all of these cause his fear? It's not baseless if its rooted in something real and specifically part of the gun firing process or the inherent lethality. That at 53 he admits this fear rather than bring dereger about it is laudable.
 
Mark is my friend. I promise that I will teach him well, and we'll get plenty of range time together.

If he hasn't done it already, he'll thank you later.
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As an aside, I don't understand the attitude of some here, who can't see that it is a good thing for fence sitters, and even antis to come down on the side of reason. They toss insults, disparage people's world view, etc, etc, and can't be happy that there is one fewer enemy trying to take away our rights. A lot of folks on all sides of the RKBA debate still don't seem to get that this is not a conservative/liberal issue, it's not a debate on the best way to get things done in society, it's a debate about the fundamental human right to defend oneself, something everyone ought to be able to get behind. Let's stick with that, instead of tossing insults disparaging other's political beliefs.

Try not to let the rest of your politcs get in the way here, because it's really pretty simple:

Be nice, make friends, have fun, keep your rights.

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@ Gossamer: Good point. I didn't think of the mechanical aspects of it. He DID admit to a limited experience with firearms, and it definitely could have been that (recoil, etc). I'm glad he is willing to overcome that.
 
Good article, glad he took that step, I sincerely hope he continues on his journey of awareness.
Another disingenuous and horribly over-used line that we should never accept is the "I would wave a wand and pretend guns never existed!"
I can handle myself in a fight, but my 110 pound wife can't. And I lose if it's more than 1-1. And in 50 years I won't be able to either.
Thank you Samuel Colt for making us equal.
 
Glad to hear he is exploring the subject with more of an open mind than perhaps he had in the past. I'm certain if he follows through with his plan B he will learn a lot.

You wanna own guns, or carry them in public? Fine. But it doesn’t seem too much to ask that you show a high degree of competency for such privileges

And yes, I do hope that he learns the difference between a right, and a privilage . It is one of the most important parts of the issue.

Another point of reality is the fact that all this call for competency needs to be approached with the reality that out of 10's of thousands of permit holds there are very few cases of mis-handling firearms causing harm to others. And once again, a right is a right, and I don't have to pass even first grade English to express my first amendment protected rights.
 
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