I don't think your "ball-less". Not that I want to know......
Couple of things - ladies like mushy, sentimental stuff. Most guys don't. You have to (IMHO) do little things for them and it pays off big time. A five buck bunch of flowers on the way home from work, perfume, jewlery, just geive her small frequent (cheap) gifts can do wonders.
But...... She has to get used to the idea that your going to do what your going to do. If she can't live with that, get a new lady. Period.
IMHO - the truest statement I've read is "ladies marry men thinking they'll change and men marry ladies thinking they'll never change". Both parties are mistaken.
Money - this is important. Always take care of the bedrock stuff first, wants second. Fer instance, many things are now dependant on your credit score. I strongly think this will only get worse as data banks grow and institutions validate the use of your score. I know three excellent folks who cannot get into LE due to bad credit. Let me say it again, bad credit can keep you from getting a job. Be smart and budget your needs, buy toys wih your excess.
Pardon the soap box, but just talked with a buddy having lady problems. She's great and he's great, but this lack of understanding is straining their relationship and it bugs me.
Oh - never lie. Once you start, it just screws things up - that's a very slippery slope.
The M37? Good price for around here. Worth buying? Not till you figure out what's going on in your life.