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I Survived A Home Invasion

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BearArms

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Hi Folks! This is my first post on THR, I’ve been lurking and learning for several weeks now. This is by far my favorite firearm related website. After reading the thread about “forgetting to flip the safety off”, I thought I would relate my own experience with surviving a home invasion. It was the night of the Centennial Park Olympic Bombings, Atlanta, GA 1996. I remember it rather vividly. I was a 22 yr old college student sharing a large house on Confederate Ave, near the Atlanta Zoo. It was a pretty bad neighborhood by all accounts. My girlfriend and I had just returned back from visiting our folks in Alabama and my car was filled with nice things we had brought back. We were dressed up and I wanted to change before moving everything into the house. Since I was going to be right back, I left my P229 in the glove box of the car, locked it all up and went inside to change. I was in just my underwear heading to the laundry room when I saw two black guys pressed up against the wall, trying to stay out of sight. When they realized I saw them, one began to approach with “something” in his hand, to this day I don’t know what it was. This is where it gets interesting.

I jumped backwards and fled down the dark hallway to the bedroom, where my girlfriend was. I don’t believe I will ever move that fast again. The flight instinct was so incredibly powerful. I was totally panicked and scared, just a sack of skin stuffed with fear. My girlfriend said she knew exactly what had happened without me saying a word and got behind the bed and dialed 911. I had slammed the ancient bedroom door so forcefully, that it jammed in the frame. There was a fumbling with the knob, then a shove or a kick. Total, absolute fear. At this point my mind was a mess and I felt totally helpless.

And then the most incredible feeling of “calm” (I don’t know how else to describe it) came over me when I realized there was another handgun in the room, my P232 was in her purse, which she had carried in with her. I hadn’t even gotten the gun in my hand yet, but The Panic left me. I proceeded to “slow down” and take care of business. I retrieved the gun, announced I was armed, and then for some reason fired out of the open window of the house into the ground. I didn’t think about what I was doing, I just wanted them to know I wasn’t bluffing. They fled, the cops were there in maybe 3 minutes, everything was good (we were minus a bicycle). Cops said I should have fired through the door. Not sure why I didn’t. In our young, naïve haste to unpack the car, we had left the front door unlocked. The two men simply followed us in, probably wanting the keys to the car. The cops said a neighbor lady had reported two men trying to enter her residence 15 minutes prior and that’s why they were able to respond so fast, they were already in route.

So many lessons to be learned from this (for me):
Don’t leave your gun in the car

It took me a minute to calm down enough to realize I had a second gun

I didn’t freeze when I saw them, I moved faster than ever

Once I realized I had a manner to defend myself, a calm, businesslike instinct took over, I was not all shaky until afterwards

Lock your doors, it only took 2 seconds of carelessness to put our lives a jeopardy

Entering and exiting our homes can make us vulnerable

Thanks for reading, any and all comments will be read and pondered over.

BearArms
 
Thanks for sharing. Glad you all were ok! Great reminder about having a 2nd weapon in the house.

Yours is a great example of what really happens in situations like that. I think that too many gun owners get ideas in their heads about what they're going to when "it" happens. Panic, fear, and crazy decisions are all very real parts of armed conflict and it happens to civilians as well as trained professionals.

I think you handled yourself amazingly well, especially for being 22 at the time.
 
Good thing you made it out alight, Sounds like a scarry situation. I bet youre more careful with your gun placement now though huh?
 
Good story. Thanks for sharing. In the lessons section you forgot, " the police are only 20 minutes away".
 
Glad everything turned out safely for you and your GF.

Quick question, did you hear the gunshot you fired, or did it seem muffled and far away? Just curious if you experienced auditory exclusion as your brain blocked/slowed everything else in order to focus on the threat.
 
I would say the gunshot was muted/ muffled, it doesn't stand out in my mind at at all...I don't remember thinking "Dang, that loud without muffs"....The things that stick out the most are A) that I "forgot" I had another gun, just totally panicked initially B) the change I went through went I realized I did....

I also didn't think shooting through the door was a good idea...something just didn't seem right about it when it was all going down...my untrained instinct didn't take me there...First- it was a really, really thick old oak door, wasn't sure if it would penetrate and second- they had fired no shots at me, my thinking was "if I shoot at them, they may think they need to fire back just to escape"...

at 22, there was nothing more terrifying than picturing myself in a close range firefight where I couldn't see what I was shooting at..

of course I got the old LEO "You should have shot 'em, two less perps for us to deal with"...
 
When I took the CHL class here in Texas, the instructor mentioned numerous times that in Texas, no matter HOW legally justified you are in shooting, you WILL be sued for it.

So, if the cops asked me why I didn't shoot the perps, I'd have said it wasn't my job. I'm not law enforcement -- my only concern would be in making the bad guys cease and desist what they are doing.
 
glad you and your girlfriend got out of it without any harm coming to you or her way to keep a cool head and not loose your cool
 
Bear,

Glad to hear you made it through all right. Always sad (but beneficial) to hear another self-defense scenario with more detail provided by a news article.

-Sans Authoritas
 
When I took the CHL class here in Texas, the instructor mentioned numerous times that in Texas, no matter HOW legally justified you are in shooting, you WILL be sued for it.

Not any longer, if it's a good shoot.

Tuckerdog1
 
If no one else was in the house(besides the thugs), I'd have fired through the door after shouting at them to get the hell out. Easiest way to let them know you mean business.
 
And that, boys and girls, is why when you live is bad neighborhoods you empty the car first and then go about changing clothes or whatever.
 
BearArms said:
I retrieved the gun, announced I was armed, and then for some reason fired out of the open window of the house into the ground. I didn’t think about what I was doing, I just wanted them to know I wasn’t bluffing.

I know exactly what you are talking about. Similar incident happened to me once. I didn't fire, but that was literaly the first instinct.

My girlfriend said she knew exactly what had happened without me saying a word and got behind the bed and dialed 911..... I realized there was another handgun in the room, my P232 was in her purse, which she had carried in with her.

Quite a girl you had there... She would do to ride the river with.
 
in response to the question- they were in the house. They followed us in unnoticed. They were hiding in a darkened room between the bedroom and the laundry room. We were the only people in the house, the other roommates had gone home for the summer. Afterwards, I asked Beth, the girl I was with, how she knew what was going on. She said when somebody flies into a room, slams the door as hard as they can behind them, and looks white as sheet, it's pretty obvious they are being chased. Knowing me pretty well she figured it wasn't a mouse that got me spooked. This wasn't me getting up in the middle of the night to investigate a noise, this was me nonchalantly going about my business and literally bumping into two unknown people in my house. My initial girl-scream probably threw them off just enough to allow me to jump backwards and get back to the bedroom.
 
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