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Kingpin008's post, 'What a wakeup call!' reminded me to post this account of something that happened to me about four years ago.
Its more of a lesson than a discussion of tactics as you will see, but I hope you find it interesting nonetheless.

At the time, I lived in an apartment in a large building. I was asleep in bed with my then girlfriend. We were woken up at 4am by a commotion, shouting and banging. I got up to see what was happening, and looking through the spyhole in my front door, I saw a man and a woman banging on my neighbor's door, which was directly opposite my door. They were pounding on his door and yelling at him to let them in.

I went back to bed and we listened for a while, annoyed at the inconvenience but not particularly worried.
Then we heard a knock on my door.

At first we ignored it, hoping they would just give up and go away, but they didn't. I grabbed my 1911 and crept to my front door and listened. I heard the man explaining to the woman that they could get onto the balcony, peel back the rubber seal from the window in my neighbor's back door and gain access to his apartment that way.

They then started to shout through my letterbox (the hole in the door type) saying that they were staying with my next door neighbor and were locked out and needed me to let them in so they could get onto the balcony. They were trying to sound polite, but then I heard the man say to the woman that he'd just kick the door down if nobody answered.

I told them in no uncertain terms that I wasn't going to let them in and if they didn't go away I'd call the police.
My girlfriend was out of bed by this time and standing near me. I told her to go into the living room and call the police.
The pair outside were still trying to persuade me to let them in, using a bizarre combination of syrupy talk and shouted threats. I told them that the police had been called and that they had better **** off because they'd be here shortly.

They tried again to be 'nice' saying that they had no quarrel with me and that they just wanted to get onto the balcony. The woman pushed her cellphone through the letterbox as 'collateral'.
I shouted one last time that the police were on their way, and then I made a mistake, because I called to my girlfriend (who was now on the phone to the police) and thus gave away the fact that I was not there alone.

I pushed the cellphone back through the letterbox and told them to give it up, and they both snapped.
The girl started screaming that she was going to 'shiv' (stab) my girlfriend and began to attempt to kick my door open.

My girlfriend was on the phone to the police by now and the operator kept asking her to repeat herself because the banging was so loud.
I went into the living room to find out what was happening, and my girlfriend told me that the operator kept asking her if the people were inside the apartment. I heard her saying that the banging sound was the sound of the door being kicked in and that although they weren't inside yet, they would be in a minute or two.
The operator told her that the police were on their way.

It was about this time that the man joined in. I watched through the spyhole as he instructed the woman to turn her attention to my neighbor's door while he took over on my door. He started screaming obscenities and death threats and kicking my door in.
He had a much more powerful kick and I could hear wood splintering, so I leaned against the door to stop it coming open.

This seemed to do the trick, and then what seemed like an eternity passed, me leaning against the door as hard as I could and him kicking relentlessly and shouting that he was going to stab/kill me and my girlfriend.

The police station was directly over the road from my building, so I was pretty confused as to why they hadn't turned up, as it had been about 20mins since we called. I yelled to my girlfriend to call again and find out what was happening. They operator told her again that they were on their way.
The kicking and yelling carried on for another few minutes and then they must have gotten tired because they gave up and left, with a few parting threats and a promise that they would be back.

About half an hour after they left, my intercom rang. It was the building concierge, asking if I was ok. He said he had the police with him, and I asked to speak to them. They told me that there was no point coming up to my apartment as the 'intruders' had left, and that they had followed them out of the building but subsequently lost them.
I said that I'd like to make a statement, but he told me that there was no point, as they had not actually broken into my home. I told him that the only reason they didn't get in was the fact that I was leaning against the door, and that the wood around my doorframe was badly cracked and splintered. He pretty much fobbed me off.

The next day, my neighbor knocked on my door. He told me that the man was a former friend of his, and the woman was the man's sister. He said that he had stopped being friends with them because they had started to use crack and turned into people he didn't like.
Crack certainly explains how they were behaving and the relentlessness of their attack. I shuddered to think what would have happened if they had managed to get the door open.


I'm sure many of you are now thinking that I should have stood back from the door and opened up on them with my 1911 when they got through. After all, if they had a gun the could have shot me through the door while I was leaning against it. You might call it pot luck that they didn't manage to kick the door in, because I would have had my back to them.

I'm really looking forward to hearing different views on this situation, because it was pretty traumatic for me (as you can probably imagine) and it's one of those things you turn over and over in your head.
The end result was that no harm came to me or my girlfriend, but things could so easily have turned out differently.

It's interesting to read these things and try to imagine what you would do in the same situation, but before you do, there's another angle to this story that you must take into account:

I'm in the USA now, but when this happened, I lived in 'Great' Britain. Birmingham, England to be precise.
My 1911 was deactivated, which means that it was rendered incapable of firing.
While it was legal to own, had I had used it to threaten the intruders, I would have gone to prison. If they had ignored the threat (they were on crack remember) I would have had the proverbial two pound club.
 
I agree, you were lucky. You were unable to arm yourself and luck saved both of you. My bet is that the gun on the other side of the door was NOT deactivated and would have been used. Smart move getting out of a country that embraces this type of thing. NOW, if we can keep it from happening here? You may have to move again.
 
I was not able to arm myself legally.
I could have gotten hold of a working firearm easily enough if I had been so inclined, but being the law abiding type, I didn't.
I did the 'right thing' ie, called the police and sat tight.
By a stroke of luck, I'm able to sit here and write about it years later, but it could have gone very differently.
 
Overall, I think you did the right thing.

If I may offer some observations/critique:

I wouldn't have leaned against the door. If they're violent enough to attempt kicking in a door, I want to keep as much distance from them as I can. If that door came open, you'd likely have been knocked off balance and unable to fight or flee for at least a few seconds, which might have meant serious injury or death.

You mentioned that you made a "mistake" by giving away that your girlfriend was there. I don't see that as a mistake. If I were a crook (or a pair of crooks) I'd feel much more confident attempting to get at a single victim than I would multiple victims. Sure, they might have started in on threatening her too, but the fact is that crooks that have to deal with more than one victim have a much heavier (and more unpredictable) workload to deal with. If this ever happens again, you might want to make a point of not being alone - calling out commands to the other person "TWO AT THE DOOR, CALL THE COPS" kind of thing. That sort of thing can quickly give the impression that not only aren't you scared, you're in control.

Besides that, excellent job. Something I'm learning in spades since our event the other night is that no matter how much you think about or practice for these kinds of things, most of that will go out the window as soon as the door handle rattles or the alarm goes off. You did the best you could, and it worked. That's what matters.
 
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Echoing the sentiments of others who responded, you did pretty much everything by the book. The only thing I would have done differently would have been to grab a hammer or a butcher knife. I probably would have grabbed some furniture and blocked the door, too.

As an aside, I have a personal saying - "The only way you'd get me out of this country (USA) is in a body bag.". My wife and friends think I'm nuts to think this way, but when most "civilized" countries would throw a man in prison for defending themselves or loved ones, I question their civility.

 
I honestly don't know.
If I hadn't have leaned against the door, then they would have got in for sure, and I had nothing to use as a weapon apart from various blunt objects and possibly a bayonet if I had managed to find it in time.

I should really have mentioned that the design of my hallway meant that I had a wall opposite to brace my feet against, so my position was probably stronger than you imagined from my initial description.
Looking at this from a pragmatic point of view, there was really no 'right' thing to do, as I was unable to prepare myself properly without breaking the law.
If it had happened here, then I would have had a shotgun. Would I have leaned against the door? Probably not, but then I would almost certainly have had to shoot at least one, maybe two people.
In the end nobody got hurt, but I'm not happy with the huge role luck played in the outcome.

What if I hadn't been able to brace myself against the door?

What if he had kicked harder, or they teamed up and kicked together?

What if the door had given way earlier, rather than warning me with a splintering sound?

What if I had threatened them with my 'gun' and ended up in prison?
 
OnwardAllusion, in the UK, one is allowed to use 'reasonable force'.
There is no definition of what 'reasonable force' is, and using a weapon on an unarmed intruder would be very risky from a legal standpoint.
I went out and bought a baseball bat after this incident, but had I used it on an intruder, I probably would have had to explain why I owned a baseball bat when I don't play baseball.
I read an account of an incident in which a guy caught a burglar and used a replica pistol to detain them until the police arrived.
He got into a great deal of trouble for doing so. I tried to find it to post a link here but I haven't had any luck so far.
 
After these types of situations, it's very easy to ponder all of the what-if's, could-be's, and hear about what someone else "would have done".

But here's the thing - you won! On top of that, neither you nor your girlfriend was injured. You're not lilkey to ever be in that exact situation again, so reliving all of the things you would have done differently won't matter.

You succeeded in protecting yourself and your woman. That's all that matters.

Welcome to the US, by the way. I'm a big fan of the UK, but their insane gun laws would make me consider leaving as well.
 
as I was unable to prepare myself properly without breaking the law.

Disagree. This is something that I'm starting to realize the more I analyze my methods of preparation and action following the recent attempt at my place.

We can (and should) prepare to defend ourselves and our homes without the use of firearms. Many of us jump to "grab a gun!" as the first thing we think of in regards to home defense, when in reality, having to grab a gun is the sign that all your other defenses failed, or were non-existent to begin with.

I'm not saying that having a gun isn't the answer, because let's face it - hundreds of thousands of violent acts have been ended by the use of them. However, it is entirely possible for one to be "properly prepared" without one. I can't remember the user offhand (might be Lee Lapin, but I digress) but there is a member here whose sig line expresses perfectly the hierarchy of preparedness:

Mindset - Skillset - Toolset. IN THAT ORDER.

We should all strive to make this a reality in our lives. :)

You succeeded in protecting yourself and your woman. That's all that matters.

Bingo.
 
Aha! I found it:

"Maybe the most chilling scenarios generated by Britain`s attempt to legislate a disarmed society are the tribulations of those simply seeking to survive it. Take for instance the English homeowner who used a toy gun to detain burglars caught in his home. When police arrived, the homeowner himself was arrested for using a fake firearm to threaten or intimidate."

Full text here:
http://www.nraila.org/Issues/Articles/Read.aspx?id=275&issue=015

Kingpin008, you are right, needing a gun is a sign that your other plans failed. My 'plan' was to lock my door at night (one latch, two deadbolts). That door was the only entrance to my apartment, which is why they wanted to get onto the balcony in the first place.
I sure wished I had a gun at the time though...
 
Overall you did well and the outcome was positive. Let's look at what you did right.

1. You were easily awaken at night (not a deep sleeper) and investigated rather than ignore it.
2. You are a gun owner (many aren't and would be defenseless) and had the sense to arm yourself (sadly, many don't own guns or don't arm themselves when there is clear danger and they die in these instances).
3. You called the police AND warned the aggressors - attempting to create a 911 document AND stay on the legal side of the law, and giving them a chance to back down.
4. You had a secure door that prevented a break in.
5. Nobody died, you didn't get arrested or have to kill anyone.


Now, you could have done some things better.

Personally if I were in the same situation, I would have:
1. Pushed something heavy against the door such as the couch or braced it with a chair
2. I would have armed my girlfriend with the next best weapon in the home and had her wait on the phone in a safe room
3. I would have taken cover behind something solid that gives a clear line of sight to the door so if they break in you can defend yourself.
 
Leadcounsel, you and Onward Allusion are right about using an item of furniture to barricade the door, I should have done that.
I don't think the gun owner comment was correct though, as I wasn't a gun owner, merely the owner of a 'gun shaped object'. The only thing I could have done with it was hope that intimidation was effective (probably not since I later learned that they were on crack)
If I had had a functioning firearm, I would most definitely have retreated behind some cover and let them have it.
Whether that would have been a better outcome in this particular set of circumstances is debatable, but at the time, I had no way of knowing that it would end the way it did.
 
I would most definitely have retreated behind some cover and let them have it.

Unless you mean after they gained entry to your apartment, that's not quite the right response.

In most places, an individual on the opposite side of a closed door is not considered enough of a threat to you to warrant using deadly force against. Once they breach the door, that's another story.

Plus, you don't know what else is on the other side of that door. If your neighbor opens the door to confront the troublemakers and you send rounds through the door, you risk hitting a very unintended target.
 
Sorry, yes I did mean after they came through the door.
The damage to my door frame was such that I am 100% certain that if I had stopped leaning against it, they definitely would have gotten through.
 
Fair enough. Just wanted to mention that - there are a suprisingly high number of people out there who do think that it's acceptable to fire on unknown targets. I didn't think that's what you meant, but I wanted to make sure.
 
kingpin008
Disagree. This is something that I'm starting to realize the more I analyze my methods of preparation and action following the recent attempt at my place.

We can (and should) prepare to defend ourselves and our homes without the use of firearms. Many of us jump to "grab a gun!" as the first thing we think of in regards to home defense, when in reality, having to grab a gun is the sign that all your other defenses failed, or were non-existant to begin with.

You certainly do have to have other precautions, but those are merely alarms. I have a dog that I'd depend on to raise a little noise in case of an intruder, and ever door leading into the house has two deadbolt locks and is reinforced, and I am in the process of installing a few cameras.

Would I depend on my dog to save my life? No. It wouldn't be fair to her.

Do I expect the locks to halt any attempt at getting in without authorization? No, but I sure hope they keep someone out long enough for me to prepare myself.

Until claymores are legal for me to set up defenses with :neener: I'll keep a gun close by.

But to the OP, I'm glad you came out unharmed. Learn from your experience, and capitalize.
 
I went out and bought a baseball bat after this incident, but had I used it on an intruder, I probably would have had to explain why I owned a baseball bat when I don't play baseball.

What happened to Britain? I mean, really, when you have to even think like this...
 
At the time, I lived in an apartment in a large building. I was asleep in bed with my then girlfriend. We were woken up at 4am by a commotion, shouting and banging. I got up to see what was happening, and looking through the spyhole in my front door, I saw a man and a woman banging on my neighbor's door, which was directly opposite my door. They were pounding on his door and yelling at him to let them in.

At this point I called the police.

My only criticism.

As a taxpayer, I would call the police immediately and let them sort it out. That's the job for which they're getting paid.
 
As a taxpayer, I would call the police immediately and let them sort it out. That's the job for which they're getting paid.

This is true. However if it were me, I'd be hesitant to call immediately for the follwing reasons:

1. Besides the noise (which I can ignore) it doesn't concern me. If the neighbor wants them gone, he can call the cops and deal with it.

2. At that point, no actual violence had occurred. Sometimes drunks or loudmouths come to your door and make a ruckus. Often times, they leave soon after. Chances are that any call to the cops regarding the incident wouldn't have been made a priority, and the cops would show up to a non-event.

Not worth the trouble, IMHO.
 
Mainsail, you're probably right.
I doubt it would have made much difference though. I have deliberately refrained from commenting on my opinion of the way the police dealt with this incident, as we are supposed to be taking the high road on this forum.
Suffice to say that when they did turn up about an hour after they were called, they didn't even bother to come up and speak to me.

John Parker, what happened to Britain is that there has been a gradual erosion of rights. We have no equivalent of the First and Second Amendments and political correctness has gone crazy. You'd have to have lived there to fully appreciate it.
While all of the above was happening, I was not only afraid of the people trying to break into my home, but what the legal ramifications of my response to it would be, including the fact that I had a harmless 'gun' in my hand.
I was fully expecting to go to prison if the door had given way.
 
There is no definition of what 'reasonable force' is, and using a weapon on an unarmed intruder would be very risky from a legal standpoint.
I went out and bought a baseball bat after this incident, but had I used it on an intruder, I probably would have had to explain why I owned a baseball bat when I don't play baseball.
A couple of questions:
- If reasonable force doesn't include cold cocking a couple crackheads as they break into your apartment, exactly what does it include?
- How would they know you don't play baseball? Cricket bat? Pitching wedge? Large dog?
 
Well the problem is that I don't know what 'reasonable force' is, and nor does anybody else.
What if they were unarmed? Is it 'reasonable' to smack an unarmed person in the head with a bat? I had adrenalin pumping through my veins, what if I had hit too hard and killed them?
I mean, I could have explained that they were threatening to stab me, so it would be reasonable to assume they had knives, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't get into trouble.

It would be obvious that I didn't play baseball because during questioning, it would have become apparent that I know nothing about baseball and that I wouldn't be able to prove that I had ever played it.
They would want to know why I had a baseball bat, but no ball or glove, and may have taken it to mean that I was 'looking for trouble'.
On the other hand, the police may have patted me on the back, I just don't know.
I do remember reading a police statement years ago in the newspaper that it was not legal to keep a weapon for home defense.

An example is current police advise for people being mugged or raped. They suggest that you put your keys between your fingers as 'brass knuckles' or spray hairspray/perfume at the attacker, but carrying brass knuckles is illegal, and owning pepper spray is a firearms offense.

So, if I had pressed a non weapon item into service as a weapon, and had only used 'reasonable force' (whatever that is) I would probably have gotten away with it.

As I think I mentioned above, I did go out and buy a baseball bat after this incident, and I had my story ready: I saw it cheap at a yard sale and bought it to give to my cousin's kid for christmas.
 
I have deliberately refrained from commenting on my opinion of the way the police dealt with this incident, as we are supposed to be taking the high road on this forum.
Suffice to say that when they did turn up about an hour after they were called, they didn't even bother to come up and speak to me.

It's only a mild criticism, and just my opinion. When I hear that certain kind of angry shouting, it has never, in my experience, resulted in something good happening; indifference or violence follows which makes it 50-50. Did your girlfriend mention you were armed? If you tell the comm officer you are armed and will protect yourself if they enter, the cops will show up fast. Usually like there's free doughnuts. It also shows that you were trying to prevent the escalation if it comes to your shooting someone.
 
No way!
If they had known I was 'armed' (deactivated gun remember?) they would have been round to arrest me, not the crackheads. This is England remember...

The emergency operator could clearly hear the loud banging of them kicking the door, she even had to get my ex to keep repeating herself as the banging was so loud it kept drowning her voice out.
They knew something serious was happening.
 
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