The thing is, there's not 1 "right" answer. There are many good ways to go about it, and there's a few bad ones.
Look into a CCW class taught by a qualified instructor. Mine brought about 8 different guns to the class, and let people fire them to get a feel, some of us got to use the Ed Brown 1911, while some of the newbies where shooting a 22 revolver.
You have to look at how likely you are to practice, and what your real needs are, *if* you're only getting it for self-defense. Semi's vs auto's, etc.
It would be worth it to drive a couple hours to a good sized store, and just go in and fondle everything you can lay your hands on. Don't get hung up on caliber at the beginning, find what feels good, what feels good when you aim, is the grip too big, can you reach the trigger easily. If it has an external safety can you reach it w/o having to shift grips.
The other thing to keep in mind is that your first gun is not likely to be your only gun. Be prepared to buy something, and then realize that you don't like it, and buy something else. IN my case, I had a S&W M457 that seemed OK, but after a few hundred rounds, I just found that I didn't enjoy it. It wasn't any one specific thing, it just wasn't pleasant. Tried a 1911, and it fits perfectly. For whatever reason. I can't get a glock to fit my hand for naything, but an XD fits great, while the M&P feels weird. The one model taurus in 9 fits great, the other one, sux.
So what's right for everybody isn't the same for everybody.
If you get a glock or a 1911, there are 22 conversion kits that make it *much* cheaper to shoot while starting out...
Last piece of advice.
Make your first purchase from a reputable gun store, and as long as their price is reasonable, just pay it. THen go back and drive 'em start raving nuts with questions. If they don't want to help you up front make a wise choice, find a different store. They're out there, I posted my tale of woe and success just a week or so ago, you can search by username and find it. But there's *good* gun shops out there.
Look into a CCW class taught by a qualified instructor. Mine brought about 8 different guns to the class, and let people fire them to get a feel, some of us got to use the Ed Brown 1911, while some of the newbies where shooting a 22 revolver.
You have to look at how likely you are to practice, and what your real needs are, *if* you're only getting it for self-defense. Semi's vs auto's, etc.
It would be worth it to drive a couple hours to a good sized store, and just go in and fondle everything you can lay your hands on. Don't get hung up on caliber at the beginning, find what feels good, what feels good when you aim, is the grip too big, can you reach the trigger easily. If it has an external safety can you reach it w/o having to shift grips.
The other thing to keep in mind is that your first gun is not likely to be your only gun. Be prepared to buy something, and then realize that you don't like it, and buy something else. IN my case, I had a S&W M457 that seemed OK, but after a few hundred rounds, I just found that I didn't enjoy it. It wasn't any one specific thing, it just wasn't pleasant. Tried a 1911, and it fits perfectly. For whatever reason. I can't get a glock to fit my hand for naything, but an XD fits great, while the M&P feels weird. The one model taurus in 9 fits great, the other one, sux.
So what's right for everybody isn't the same for everybody.
If you get a glock or a 1911, there are 22 conversion kits that make it *much* cheaper to shoot while starting out...
Last piece of advice.
Make your first purchase from a reputable gun store, and as long as their price is reasonable, just pay it. THen go back and drive 'em start raving nuts with questions. If they don't want to help you up front make a wise choice, find a different store. They're out there, I posted my tale of woe and success just a week or so ago, you can search by username and find it. But there's *good* gun shops out there.