Jim NE
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Carter, you were wise for not pushing the issue. I used to have heated political discussions during lunch with one of the women I used to work with. I realized that, through no fault of my own, she started to take the discussions personally, as if I was putting her down because I disagreed with her. I wasn't putting her down. I didn't dislike her because of her views. She was in no position to fire me or affect my job, but I still didn't want to hurt her feelings...that wasn't my intention. I'm not sure if it affected our working relationship or not. I hope it didn't.
Anyway, I came to the conclusion that I get paid to do my work, NOT convert people to my way of thinking. If political or ideological conflicts or views start disrupting a workplace, then they aren't appropriate. If anyone asks me my opinion, I'll tell them what it is in all honesty. If anyone asks me to do or say something that goes against my ethics, I won't do it. But the workplace is not the appropriate place for a soap box.
Anyway, I came to the conclusion that I get paid to do my work, NOT convert people to my way of thinking. If political or ideological conflicts or views start disrupting a workplace, then they aren't appropriate. If anyone asks me my opinion, I'll tell them what it is in all honesty. If anyone asks me to do or say something that goes against my ethics, I won't do it. But the workplace is not the appropriate place for a soap box.