Life is short and then we die. We're all self centered to some extent, the key is to try to become aware of it and to get over ourselves so we can truly live life free from the burden of self and thus live a positive life out of love and not just exist acting out our insecurities and fears. At the end of the day all of us have to look in the mirror and face the truth of who we are - and what we have chosen to make our lives about. I believe in a personal God and that I am accountable for my life and I don't think he cares how good of a shot I am, how much money I make, how many nice things I have or don't have, how many I good deeds I do, or how smart or talented I am. He and I care about how much I live my life out of love.
That life isn't fair - of course not - thank God it isn't or we'd all be dead or worse. Today I am grateful for my life - sure I've had pain in my life - alcoholism, the loss of a marriage, the death of my father, the death of my brother, almost losing my youngest daughter, losing my career of twenty plus years, facing losing my home, and potentially losing my currrent marriage and family. But that is life. Yesterday is gone and tomorrow isn't promised so I live today.
I don't shoot poorly but then I'm by no means a crack shot, I have some nice guns but I know a lot of people that have more. So what. The things of this world, the achievments and rewards of this world are of no real value. Life is what we each choose to make it. Get over the hubris of judging others for in doing so one only passes judgement on themselves. Envy, resentment, self-righteousness only prevent us from living and loving.
No one needs to justify themselves or their choices in life to me or to any man, they have incalcuable value in God's eyes and he is the only judge.
So, what would I say to someone who had a lot of quality or expensive guns and who was a lousy shot - probably - "Hey those are some really nice guns. Don't get to shoot much or are you just a bad shot?"