Hangingrock
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It might be your choice to hand over such control of yourself to an insignificant stranger on the basis of insults. It is not mine.
I concur.
It might be your choice to hand over such control of yourself to an insignificant stranger on the basis of insults. It is not mine.
mgmorden said:There are many others who care not if someone is offended though.
Agreed. This is not about being in a situation where you "couldn't care less" if profanity has an effect on someone. This is about being in a situation where (if you choose to use it) you are expecting it to have an effect.Lee Lapin said:We aren't talking about using profanity in a casual conversation with a stranger on the street here.
Loosedhorse said:Good point. Maybe I should insert "Sir" or Ma'am" earlier, when I'm still at the "please" stage--but have already raised my voice (to collect witnesses and...who knows? The aggressor might be hard of hearing).
But your point also suggests: unless profanity is a standard part of my language, my inserting it into my confrontation strategy is going to slow me down. Unless I practice it enough for it to become a near-reflex.
Unlikely, for some; not for others.
I personally find the mismatch of tone and words (saying please while the tone says DO IT NOW) tends to get attention.
There are a lot of oddball laws on the books. In my state its illegal for a woman to buy pantyhose on a Sunday and there are a few other laws regarding body positions during intercourse.MISSISSIPPI CODE OF 1972
As Amended
SEC. 97-29-47. Profanity or drunkenness in public place.
If any person shall profanely swear or curse, or use vulgar and indecent language, or be drunk in any public place, in the presence of two (2) or more persons, he shall, on conviction thereof, be fined not more than one hundred dollars ($100.00) or be imprisoned in the county jail not more than thirty (30) days or both.
SOURCES: Codes, Hutchinson's 1848, ch. 64, art. 4(1); 1857, ch. 64, art. 340; 1871, Sec. 2833; 1880, Sec. 2974; 1892, Sec. 1219; 1906, Sec. 1295; Hemingway's 1917, Sec. 1028; 1930, Sec. 1059; 1942, Sec. 2291; Laws, 1912, ch. 212; 1971, ch. 448, Sec. 2, eff from and after passage (approved March 25, 1971).
We go from "there ought to be a law" to "there IS a law" LOL.
Conclude the time for talking has passed. My next options are physical, and include my absolute favorite: running away. Likely while screaming "HELP!" Like I said: high traffic area, with security employees about.Loosedhorse, what would you do next if a stranger just keeps coming at you, even after you have exhausted whatever your own verbal escalation script might be?
Wow! You knocked that strawman over hard!"If you use profanity, its a bad idea to go armed"
There has been at least one conviction under this law reversed on appeal, but I believe arrests are still made under it. The problem with challenging a law is that in most cases it's going to cost money, far more than the possible $100 fine mandated by this one.
It must be tiresome for you: it seems you know everything that I don't know but should know! By the way, where did I discuss the "viability" of backing "straight" up? How many instructors agree that "backing up and making distance...while looking for accomplices" is not viable while one attempts to verbally persuade/command a not-yet-committed aggressor to disengage?viability of backing straight up
Perhaps just the same "I seriously suggest" and implication that my ideas are not viable that is coming from you? Perhaps his teaching style rubs off?Believe it or not the "You must do this" is pretty minimal in his classes.
"Any person"? Short answer, no. It would depend on the circumstances. All speech is not protected. Several states have similar laws, and they are still on the books. And as I pointed out before, most would pay the fine rather than pay hundreds of hours in attorney costs for an appeal, or more likely a series of appeals. Or maybe you could get the ACLU to do it pro bono.Under the profanity portion? The public drunkeness clause I'd say is far more likely to still be used. I can guarantee you that any person who wanted to challenge the profanity portion could have the law invalidated as unconstitutional.
It must be tiresome for you: it seems you know everything that I don't know but should know! By the way, where did I discuss the "viability" of backing "straight" up? How many instructors agree that "backing up and making distance...while looking for accomplices" is not viable while one attempts to verbally persuade/command a not-yet-committed aggressor to disengage?Perhaps just the same "I seriously suggest" and implication that my ideas are not viable that is coming from you? Perhaps his teaching style rubs off?
Hey, if you want to open a thread "After the profanity fails, what then?" be my guest.
Who knew we would be so fortunate to have with us the undisputed arbiter of bad and very bad--on topics that have little to do with this thread.very bad ideas
Pedantic, supercilious, and disingenuous. You already know I responded to your suggestion of deleting the "sir" with "Good point." You already know that you decided to interpret my "back away" to exclude whatever movement you think is better. Your "arcing" either includes the idea of creating distance and space while monitoring the opponent and your surroundings; or it doesn't. If it doesn't, then I'm not interested, especially as you have made no effort to explain why I should be. Well, except to tell me I have the very bad ideas, and you presumably know the better ones.Key words to look for are
Because you wanted to get one more dig in at me. It certainly was not to supply more info about your ideas, which you chose not to do. Even though I have twice invited you to open a thread about it.(Why am I responding still?...)
I made no such implication, and in fact clearly stated the opposite.in response to your statement implying that you do not practice your verbal skills