Sam1911
Moderator Emeritus
He's smart, knows what he's talking about, and I usually agree with him on substance. But he also is the chief representative of my primary dissatisfaction with THR: Most of his posts have the underlying theme, "Listen to me; I'm smarter than you."
That's a tough thing to try to answer, or fix. Especially as that perception is going to be very personal, as seen (or not seen) by each reader. I don't read that in fiddletown's comments at all. Maybe it is because of something about my background, or being used to the forms of debate common here, or some quirk of my own speech/composition patterns, but I tend to hear what he writes in the voice of an old professor of mine. Not mealy-mouthed, not imprecise, not pulling punches, but not mean-spirited or egotistical, either.
We're all just invented screen names with the illusion of anonymity, here. But behind those names are folks who have done things, studied things, learned, written, taught, developed understanding -- or not. While all have equal freedom to speak (so long as they can follow our forum guidelines) not all opinions shared are of equal value. And yet, do we somehow limit those folks who know and say valuable things so that other folks with more minimal experience or less constructive contributions can feel equal?
No, but some of the people who contribute here also spend (or have spent) large quantities of time in those settings, and others of note. And I see no way of requiring that they ... what? soften? de-intellectualize? dumb-down? ... their words so that they do not give anyone a feeling of inferiority.We are in neither a courtroom nor a law school lecture hall
The distinction of what's pedantic and what's authoritatively knowledgeable is a mighty blurry line. Maybe you'll have to do what I do: read everything as though it is said with a great big smile, among friends.