Since you're referring to me in a not so covert way.....
You have a point except that,
In the context of this scenario, "making a conscious and informed decision to take no action" except to make sure everyone is calm, ducking below the window line, and anyone that may have a heart condition is OK is "choosing to do nothing" to prevent your wife from running into armed robber with AK and a drum mag in a dimly lit parking lot.
YMMV, but I'll take the opportunity every time to protect my wife 24/7 365 days out of the year (leap year too!) over making sure that the waffle house patrons are calm and no one needs their nitroglycerin pills..
Isnt that why we carry? To protect our selves and our families?
Or do we carry to make sure everyone is OK inside the waffle house?
You're sure into making a lot of assumptions, here. Like, for instance, that I'm singling you out in my last post.
Doing nothing has been on the table for discussion as far back as post #5 where another member said "This looked like a situation that called for a good witness instead of intervention." Even so, he advocated doing something (be a good witness) over strictly "doing nothing" by not intervening.
And where, pray tell, do you get the impression from my last post that I would choose to do nothing to prevent my wife from running into an armed robber?
While attempting to carry on a meaningful dialog in an internet forum on a purely text basis is, by its very nature, limited in scope and content, it should be readily understood that not every single little detail is going to find its way into a posting. Thus absence of anything in particular does not necessarily mean, or imply, more than the fact that it simply was not posted.
One such detail would be the subject of my wife in this instance. You seem to think that just because I did not mention in my last post that I would have considered my wife, that this, somehow, implies I would not have. Where do you get that? I also did not mention looking out for crying children, panicing pregnant mothers, or a crazed service animal, either. None of which indicates I would not consider them and do something about them.
But that is a pointless exercise because we're not discussing what I would have done based on all kinds of hypothetical circumstances.
We carry to protect ourselves. The law also allows us to extend that self-protection to others around us, such as our family members and others.
"Protecting" someone who is not physically there, as in the WH example, is NOT necessarily legal OR smart.
And THAT is what I (and others) have been trying to say.
If anybody chooses to pursue a bad guy when he's broken off the engagement and is leaving the scene, they better have their head on straight about it. Because they WILL be held accountable for their actions if they choose wrong. This is not a subject that can be taken blithely
And how can one take care of and protect their family if their choice gets them killed, disabled for life, impoverished through court battles, or imprisoned?