I shot SASS for a number of years. I'm sorry that some of you have encountered rudeness at local events. Having managed local club shoots and assisted with the Hell on Wheels Regional Match, I know it's difficult to do. Our local matches usually had 3-5 stages and 60-70 shooters. The regional had 10 stages plus side matches for derringer, pocket pistol, and long range.
We would have similar questions: "I don't care about winning so why can't I just reload my one percussion pistol on the clock?" Because we have 80 shooters in 4 squads. Stages are designed with time in mind so that the match flows smoothly and shooters don't get backed up waiting for the next squad to finish a stage. We assume the average shooter will finish a stage in 30 seconds. It will take you minutes to load your cap and ball and throw the whole timing thing out the window. That's why we have rules.
"I just want to shoot the match. Why do I have to dress up? It's silly." You can usually get by at most matches with blue jeans, a work shirt, boots and a cheap hat. Yeah, for some people, the costumes are very important and contribute to their enjoyment and fantasies. That's whey we have rules. No ball caps. No sneakers. But our club was very welcoming to new shooters. If they showed up tractor caps and running shoes, we'd let them shoot and advise them how meet the minimum costume rules.
"I want to shoot my 1911 in a regular match because you don't have a Wild Bunch match." Even though SASS doesn't shoot for money or big prizes, it can very competitive and you have an advantage with a semi-auto. (Although I'd put the top shooters up against the average guy with a 1911.) That's why we have rules.
CluttonFred. An acceptable costume of Eastern Dude will get you into most SASS matches. Snug old suit from Goodwill, lace up shoes, and a plug hat would work great.
Again, I apologize that some SASS clubs are rude and unwelcoming. I've seen the same at IPSC and IDPA on occasion by some individuals. I don't understand it because the future of these sports depend on attracting fresh blood.