durango
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Here’s a scenario, but it’s not hypothetical. This happened to me many years back (before I owned a gun or a CCW) and I think about it from time to time and wonder how I would have handled the situation if I had been armed at the time. I’d be interested in your opinions.
I was at the corner laundromat not far from my apartment on a weekend afternoon and I was the only one in the place. As I’m busy stuffing my clothes into the washer a young man (aka hood) walks right up to me, looks me in the eye and says in a calm but rather menacing manner “You the guy that was callin’ me out†(or calling me some name or something to that effect). I don’t remember the exact words. He is standing about 3 feet away from me and over his shoulder I see 2 of his buddies in the doorway looking out toward the street. I get this cold chill down my spine and figure I’m about to get rolled. I doubt I could beat this guy one on one and definitely not 3 to 1. Thankfully no weapons are being displayed. Now I’ve never seen any of them before, nor had any verbal exchanges with anyone prior to this, so in my most humble, non-aggressive voice (not too difficult since I’m not feeling too cocky at this point) I explain that I have no idea what he’s talking about and have never said anything to him before. He asks me again like he’s trying to figure me out, and I repeat myself. Eventually I say “look, I just want to do my laundry here, I’m not looking for any fightsâ€. He looks me in the eye and then leans toward me and pats me on the shoulder and says something to the effect of “OK man, no problemâ€. He and his buddies walk out. I take a few deep breaths, grab all my clothes out of the washer and head for safer ground.
Good outcome, but it really shook me up. I realized that if these gangbangers (my assumption) had wanted to hurt or kill me, I would have been pretty much at their mercy. I’m sure I did the right thing at the time, (aside from my nonexistent situational awareness), but I can’t help wondering what the proper response would have been if I had been carrying. They may have been armed but I never saw a weapon. I definitely felt threatened, but there was never a clear cut threat to my life, he merely approached me and asked a question. Never made a single verbal threat. This turned out OK but was it merely luck? If I had drawn a handgun, would this have potentially turned out much worse. I guess my question is, how close is too close if you feel that someone is threatening you. If you were in this situation and someone approached you like this, how would you handle it? Appreciate any thoughts on this.
I was at the corner laundromat not far from my apartment on a weekend afternoon and I was the only one in the place. As I’m busy stuffing my clothes into the washer a young man (aka hood) walks right up to me, looks me in the eye and says in a calm but rather menacing manner “You the guy that was callin’ me out†(or calling me some name or something to that effect). I don’t remember the exact words. He is standing about 3 feet away from me and over his shoulder I see 2 of his buddies in the doorway looking out toward the street. I get this cold chill down my spine and figure I’m about to get rolled. I doubt I could beat this guy one on one and definitely not 3 to 1. Thankfully no weapons are being displayed. Now I’ve never seen any of them before, nor had any verbal exchanges with anyone prior to this, so in my most humble, non-aggressive voice (not too difficult since I’m not feeling too cocky at this point) I explain that I have no idea what he’s talking about and have never said anything to him before. He asks me again like he’s trying to figure me out, and I repeat myself. Eventually I say “look, I just want to do my laundry here, I’m not looking for any fightsâ€. He looks me in the eye and then leans toward me and pats me on the shoulder and says something to the effect of “OK man, no problemâ€. He and his buddies walk out. I take a few deep breaths, grab all my clothes out of the washer and head for safer ground.
Good outcome, but it really shook me up. I realized that if these gangbangers (my assumption) had wanted to hurt or kill me, I would have been pretty much at their mercy. I’m sure I did the right thing at the time, (aside from my nonexistent situational awareness), but I can’t help wondering what the proper response would have been if I had been carrying. They may have been armed but I never saw a weapon. I definitely felt threatened, but there was never a clear cut threat to my life, he merely approached me and asked a question. Never made a single verbal threat. This turned out OK but was it merely luck? If I had drawn a handgun, would this have potentially turned out much worse. I guess my question is, how close is too close if you feel that someone is threatening you. If you were in this situation and someone approached you like this, how would you handle it? Appreciate any thoughts on this.