My criteria for a concealed carry pistol: MUST have a manual trigger safety. For maximum reliability under extreme conditions it must be striker fired and must have plain trigger hinged at the top WITHOUT a dongle for the least susceptibility to contamination issues. Largest possible capacity for it's size.
The Sig P365 series is one of the few that checks all of the boxes I consider important. You can get it with three different height grip modules holding 10, 12, and 17 rounds respectively. There are several aftermarket grip modules available, one made from aluminum and the other polymer with an optional 1.5 oz grip weight to give the pistol better balance when low on ammunition. Two different slide lengths and barrel lengths. Compensated or uncompensated barrel or slide. With or without manual trigger safety. Straight trigger or curved. It comes with a nearly flush magazine release button, but you can install a normal height and/or offset magazine release button. Machined for RDS. With a MagGuts spring kit you can reliably increase the capacity from 10 rds to 12 rds, and from 12 rds to 14 rds. The MagGuts 12 rd + 2 kit added 1/8" of extra grip height which made it fit my XL sized hands like a glove. It has a low bore axis which makes it fairly easy to shoot. I now have a P365 and a P365XL and I am quite happy with them and have no desire to replace them. The P365XL is my normal carry pistol and the P365 I use for pocket carry. YMMV.