10 real life situations I've faced. What would you do?

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I grew up in a pretty rough town. Because I was under 21, I was unable to carry a pistol to protect myself. In most of these situations, other self defense tools would have been totally unuseful, which is beside the point as I did not carry those either. My question to you is; what would you have done with a CC weapon in these situations? If I get a few good responses and you guys are curious, I'll tell you what I did.

1) 3 friends and I were skateboarding between some buildings near my house. We sat down to take a rest, and 6 obvious gang members (all blue, rags, etc) came from one side and 7 from the other. They started yelling at us in spanglish (mixed words from english and spanish) and then ran up and kicked my friend in the face. There were 2 guys on me, including the biggest one (I was the biggest in our group at 6'2" 215.5 (never could hit 215 for wrestling)), 3 on one of my friends, 2 on each of the others. There were also 2 guarding the escape routes on one side and 3 on the other. One of my friends was taken out instantly as he was a very small guy. The largest one, who was punching me in the face and telling me how crazy he was punched like a fluffy little bunny. He got in 8 good shots and didn't even leave a bruise. I'm sure the 3 of us (not counting the KOed little guy) could have taken all 13 of them as they were smallish and we were biggish football players. They were probably armed, and if we had fought back they would have most likely shot or stabbed us (plus who knows about older 'brothers/homies' creeping in the shadows?)...

2) The first gun I had pulled on me; Me and two other friends were walking home along a busy street. A car came up behind us at 20 in a 30, and at about 10 yards behind us the front, right passanger pulled a gun. When he got closer, he pulled the trigget... *CLICK!!!* and they drove off. Not sure if it was a misfire or them just messing with us.

3) On a similar note... I was walking home from a game of basketball with my 2 exchange students. 2 cars for of 4 or 5 obvious gang members pulls along side us. One of them sticks his torso out of the top of the car, and sits in the window frame (dukes of hazzard style), and starts yelling "Where you from bitch!?" at me. I ignore him after him repeating 2x. He goes back into the car, grabs a gun, and points it at me ready to shoot. I thought I was through until I realized his 'gun' was a pack of smokes, and they were just f***ing with some stupid gringo. They laughed and drove off.

4) Playing basketball; We were playing some 2 on 2 when some guy we didn't recognize came up. He called winner, took off his shirt, set down a pager, pistol, baggy of pot, and his keys on the ground. He is calm and gets in on the next game like it wasn't a big deal.

5) Myself and a friend were leaving another friend's apartment at 2 or 3 AM while watching Conan Obrien. As we were walking out the door, he told a funny joke and we were laughing. As we were walking to my car (other side of the lot) we noticed a guy about out age milling around. When we got closer, he lifted up his shirt and said "What's so funny?" My friend told him that it was something we saw on TV. He says "That's what I ????ing though" and walks off.

6) My mom and I are the only ones home. I hear footsteps on the back porch (which leads to the basement, where the circuit breakers are), and then all of the lights go out. Our back door is made of thin, rotten wood, and the top 1/2 has a large glass window. The lock was a flimsy handle lock.

7) Same crappy back door gets kicked in (I was so glad we could finally get a new door... Even though we had to pay for it out of the insurance money, and only my stuff was stolen). The footprint left on the door was about a size 8. Noone was home at the time. 2 days later, the same thing happend, same footprint. By this time I was a 6'6" 290lbs division 1 football recruit with a 325 bench, 530 squat and deadlift. I had to stay home and watch the house the next 2 days as we had no remaining back door.

8) The nice family across the street moved out and started renting the place out. The renters were drug dealers who parked low riders in the front yard and would always have questionable people over. One night they were getting drunk in the front yard, and one of them decides to pull out a pistol and start shooting at the ground for fun. One of the bullets, don't ask me how, hits a window frame in my house and the window shatters everywhere.

9) This didn't happen to me, it happened to my uncle. He pulled into the McD's parking lot with his wife and kid only to find some crazy waving around his .38 special and preaching about nonsense. Uncle had his 1911 in the glove box.

10) This is the single worst thing I have ever faced. Me and 3 friends, and 2 of their girlfriends, in 2 cars, stopped in a BK parking lot at 11 at night (bad idea, but hindsight is 20-20) to ask this guy how much he wanted for his truck (for sale sign in the window)... He was a cool guy and was asking a reasonable price. I look over into a parking lot across the street and see my entire highschool basketball (varsity and JV) team plus some other guys headed over to us. I was friends with a few of them so I thought it was pretty cool to see them. When they got a little closer however, I realized I didn't know any of these guys. Around 30 black men (this is significant as a) I was being jumped for being white, and b) I didn't know any of them and ethnic diversity as it was in my town, at least some of them should have been either currently or previously enrolled in my highschool, or that of a neighboring highschool)... These guys were huge, all nearly my size, except one (the loud mouth), and were wearing very nice designer clothes, driving pretty nice cars, and sporting nice watches and chains. They pretended to hang out and be cool for a little while, but I was VERY worried as a lot of them were smoking blunts and drinking glasses of whiskey. It became pretty clear what their intent was when a cop drove by staring at the scene. "Oh sh*t a cop!"... "Man, shut up. We can take a cop."... The cop didn't stop, didn't come back, didn't call for help. Nothing. At 11:30 BK turns off their streetlight. When this happened was when I was sure something bad was going down "You ever notice that every time a light goes out a white boy gets jumped?" They basically say that if we have money and we give it to them, we are free to go. If we don't have money they are going to beat us up, and if any of us says we don't have money but we really do, then we get killed and left in a ditch outside of town. At this point a few of them lifted up their shirts to reveal a few tec-9s, various pistols. They were in a semi-circle around me, as I was the biggest, and my back was to my friend's large pickup. I had to give them my money (I had goten paid that day and had my entire cashed check on me). I realized that my friends didn't have any money, and that during the beatdown it was very likely that their girlfriends would have been raped. So I did the stupidest thing I've ever done and acted like I was gonna fight them. My friend who owned the truck got the hint, and snuck around to the driver's door. The minute I heard the door open, I pulled out my wallet and have him all $72 dollars (I was 17, part time job). The little bastard says to me "Damn straight. That's the American way right there."... Right then the truck starts, peels out. All 30 of those guys freak and take off after the truck. One of them actually catches it, punches my friend in the face (He could have just as easily pulled him out of the bed). I get to my van before they can turn their agression to me, and I take off down the street at 90mph in a 30. Now, here is the worst part. With 5 people in the back of his truck, my friend who was fleeing the scene has an uninsured, illegal immigrant motorist pull out in front of him, and hits him. His truck is totalled, but thankfully everything is ok. Now, you guys remember my story about getting my house broken into 2x? Well this happened friday of that week. Also that week my car was broken into 2x, and some prankster took the lugs off of my hubcap on the following monday and my wheel came off in the middle of the street. One stipulation I'd like to add for #10 is that you give me an answer for both a) what really happened and b) what if they would have pulled my friend out of the back of the truck with the intent to kill him.
 
Oh, moral of story #10, any dumb@ss that tells you that you'll never need an 'assault' weapon to defend yourself needs to move out of the suburbs and into the bad neighborhood of a city with a crime problem. Actually, one of my favorite thing to do when talking politics with antis is tell them that story. 85% don't even believe me.

...Still no 'assault' weapons for me though... :(
 
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You either need to move or carry an AK with a drum mag.

1. Shoot to kill
2. Shoot to kill
3. Shoot to kill
4. Nothing
5. Nothing
6. Get gun and flashlight, shoot to kill if inside
7. Get gun and flashlight, shoot to kill if inside
8. Call cops
9. Call cops
10. If you have something full auto, spray the crowd, if not just give them your money.
 
hahahaha... I moved. I do still visit though... I may even be moving back, though it will be to a much nicer area. CPL should be here in a week or two, and the glock 23 will be coming home with me on my first payday at the new job in that town if I get it. :)
 
Man, RS, I don't know what you did, but it's obvious that you must have angered the deity of your choice, because He/She/Abstract Idea seems to be dropping the hammer on you on a regular basis. :uhoh:

~Slam_Fire
"So, there could be up to five guys in there?"
"Possibly."
"We should have @#$%ing shotguns." ~Vincent Vega and Jules Winnfield, Pulp Fiction
 
RS,
No way I could say how I would react in the situtations you outlined. Not having been there, in would be pure conjecture. What ever you did, must have been the right thing to do as you are alive to write this. I would be interested in how you extracted yourself from these bad situtations. We have all made bad decisions that put us in danger. The only fight you truly win, are the ones you never have. Continued good fortune to you!
str1
 
Damn that is some crazy stuff! I am so happy that I grew up in a relatively crime free area. No advice on what to do other then to use caution in everything you do. Don't go into a bad area after dark (if you don't have to), never put yourself, family or friends into a dangerous situation, always be prepared to defend yourself and your family and try being polite or use humor to get yourself out of a jamb. If you can run or back away then do it, if you can't then be prepared to fight as if you were fighting for your life. Don't just knock the guy down and think it's over, take him out. Otherwise he may come looking for you after he gets healed with his friends.


I am interested to see how RS and how the others would have handled these situation.

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Number 10 is a tough one.

You should have waived down the police car. If he had any sense he would immediately call for backup.

Being unarmed, the guy with the truck could have tried to run over them. If you got to your van you may be able to run over the ones that made it to the truck after the accident.

Being armed in this situation: Don't let yourself become surrounded. Keep the engine block between you and the others. If they start coming around for you you can try to warn them, but if that fails you should shoot the leader first and then anyone pulling a gun or not running becomes a target. Take the greatest threats first.

I am curious about what happened. I don't feel too bad now for carrying a 45ACP with 12+1 in the gun and an extra 12 and 10 rd mag.
 
On those occasions where I had to go into questionable neighborhoods (thankfully rare these days) I always had several pistols. In some cases a rifle or shotgun, openly carried. I did my business, paid attention to what was going on, and did not stay any longer than I had to. There are some areas that you simply should not go into, regardless of how much firepower or how many friends you have. Knowing when it is time to leave is also important. Of course I was younger then, and if not bulletproof thought I was close.:)
 
I'll add just what Shooter1 said ...... no way I could imagine responses .... just so many ''had to have been there'' factors.

I would tho be interested to here how you dealt with some of that stuff .... obviously well enough that you are hear to relate it! Welcome!:)
 
Thanks for the great responses. Here's a list of what I did, what ended up happening.

1) The guys started leaving a few at a time. Finally it was just the "I'm crazy" guy who was punching me in the face. My friends realized it before he did and started advancing on his flanks. He saw that and took off like a bat out of hell. I 100% wish I would have grabbed him and beat him to a pulp, but hey, who knows where that could lead. He took off and I thought it'd be sweet to call the cops and see if they could catch them. I took off as fast as possible, ran 4 blocks in about 15 seconds because of my adrenaline rush. Called the cops, didn't catch any of them. It turns out, however, that one of my friends who was there went to school with one of the attackers a few years earlier, and he heard that the guy got put in the hospital because he raped some hardcore gangbanger's sister.

2) I pretty much watched them drive off, then called the cops from my friend's house. That's about it.

3) Once again, I just stood there. I like this case, because even though it was a blatant threat meant to simulate a driveby, he didn't pull a gun. Would I have used lethal force? What about when his friends came after me? I couldn't exactly run home either 'cause we were a block from my house. They would have known where to find me. The funniest part of this is that the Japanese exchange students had no clue what was going on and thought those guys were my friends.

4) We pretty much let him win, made sure not to foul and then were like "Oh man... look at the time. We have to go. Good game."

5) Potential attacker was on the other side of the car near my friend I was with. I just got in the car. I had fully planned on running the guy over if he pulled his gun.

6) Called the cops and waited by the front door. That way, if someone came in the back door, we could run out the front to the neighbors. A friendly police officer showed up in about 3 minutes (RECORD TIME for this town. I've called them for very sketchy stuff and had it take like 2 .5 hours)... This was the only time a police officer has ever done something nice for me (instead of pulling me over for being in the wrong neighborhood at the wrong time of the day, or spending a half hour trying to get me to tell him I was drinking or on drugs when I wasn't, and had just been pulled over for a headligh being out. I'm a straight up guy, never even had a speeding ticket). Anyway, we tell him exactly what happens, he pulls his gun and flashlight, gets all tactical and clears the basement.

*note; I know cops have a really hard job and are trying to do it the best they can. They are individuals and should be judged as such. Police officers in the town I used to live in actually put their life on the line every day just to keep things from getting too bad... though in my current town their job is to be overstaffed and harass college kids.*

7) haha. I was PISSSED that someone broke into my house. I hid my car up the street so it would look like noone is home, covered the back door and closed all the blinds, and me and my friend hid out inside with baseball bats hoping they'd come back. That house has a lot of nooks and crannies, so I was going to hide around a corner then lower the boom. Thankfully, in terms of my agressive youthfulness getting me into trouble, they never came back.

8) I may or may not have been watching cinimax late night... :rolleyes: I was in the living room and my mom was asleep... I hear yelling in spanish, a gun shot, and glass shattering. I hit the floor, commando crawled to the window, and peeked out. About this time my mom came out, and she was freaking. I told her what had happened and, get this, we didn't even call the cops. She just said "oh well", and went back to sleep. Didn't notice what was on TV either. haha

9) I think he just went to Arby's instead.

10) I pretty much already told you what I did in this situation. I never believed in temporary insanity until that night. After I had gotten a few miles down the road while FREAKING OUT crying punching the dash and punching myself, I realized that I had a 2 ton killing machine... I turned a 180 and went looking for them. Before I got back I had calmed down, and they weren't there anymore anyway. Normally I'm a very mellow guy, but My house getting broken into 2x, My car 2x, and losing my entire paycheck which I slaved in a machine shop in 115 degree weather in full coveralls to get, and almost my life and that of my friends, was taken by a bunch of guys who wouldn't have gotten enough money from me to buy each of them a 40oz bottle of beer.

When I went to report this, the cop (even the other cops don't like this guy, I was told by my police explorer friend who was with us) called me a dumbass and asked what the hell I was doing at BK at 11:30. That made me SO mad. Why should I have to compromise my freedoms because criminals might attack me? Besides, I just stopped to ask that guy about his truck. Anyway, after getting yelled at and treated like a criminal for a half hour, he finally took a report. I was called later by a detective (which, in all of the other things I lised about had never happened before). He called at work, where I could not speak openly about what happend as I would have been ridiculed for allowing black men to jump me (dumb racists at that job, I'm not one). He also asked stupid questions "Which one actually took your money?" I'm sorry. 11:30 at night, no lights, 30 6'2-6'4" black men all with similar short haircuts and similar clothes/jewlery. Mix that with an adrenaline rush, and there's no way I could have identified any of them. Besides, I honestly don't remember which one I gave my money to. I just stuck it out in front of me.... They were very pleased with the loot, as it was 2 20s and 40 1s, and the 20s were on top. haha.
 
I wonder if the Tec-9's were even loaded with the right ammo or loaded at all. Or were real or even worked...:D

Gotta take that stuff into consideration.
 
Probably not. I'm not even sure if they were tec-9s. I was very shaken with adrenaline.
 
Damn. That's more than enough sketchiness for several lifetimes. What would I do? Avoid sketchy situations. If you carry, it's incumbent upon you to do so.

asked what the hell I was doing at BK at 11:30. That made me SO mad. Why should I have to compromise my freedoms because criminals might attack me?

Uh...because it might keep you from getting killed? "Discretion is the better part of valor." I'd say you were pretty lucky, but remember: The house always wins.
 
"Discretion is the better part of valor."

That doesn't really apply to this situation. If I wanna go walking in the park at 4am, I'll do it. I don't really care if someone on the internet thinks that I have no "valor".

Besides, he already mentioned twice that he was just there to look at a truck.
 
Well from the sounds of the activities and the number of situations listed, it sounds like you need to grow up and learn not to put yourself in dangerous situations. As for the comment about doing what you want, whenever you want, well, choices have consequences.
 
it sounds like you need to grow up and learn not to put yourself in dangerous situations.

As long as this attitude prevails the thieves, murderers and rapists will continue to win.

As for the comment about doing what you want, whenever you want, well, choices have consequences.

Yea, they do. You could just as easily get killed walking your doggy in the middle of the afternoon. I wouldn't blame you for what happened though.
 
DrDremel,

a) Last situation was '98... when I was 17... I'm 23 now. You can save your judgements about 'growing up' for someone else. I was an honor role student, never drank or did drugs EVER, section leader in band on 3 instruments, a captain on the football team and THE captain of the powerlifting team. I had a job, and also had just lost a parent to cancer.

b) I'm sorry that I put myself into dangerous situations such as walking down the street in broad daylight (x2), playing basketball at the park where I had been playing since I could walk(x1), sitting in my living room(x3), going to McDonald's(x1), etc. Stopping in the BK parking lot? Stupid, yes, but there were a whole ton of people that I thought I knew (oops). In fact, this BK was somewhat of a hangout for folks from my school. As far as the skateboarding incident, I had been playing at that park area for my entire life and nothing like that had ever happened. I guess the neighborhood was getting worse.
 
Tho I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I shall fear no evil.

But, if it should impose its self on me, Winchester RA45TP shall abundantly do my talking for me.

(edited to add: I never told anyone until now about when I was robbed at knifepoint in 7th grade in a school bathroom while waiting for the school bus. My father would have ripped me for being in the wrong place! Wrong place???? The WRONG place is in front of a victim who has a CCW and is about to turn the tables on a violent felon, that is an option that I currently choose. As a free person I should be able to go wherever and whenever I choose. Those who say that I would be to blame for a crime because I was in the wrong place should use their time to question the money they are waisting on police or politicians who use crime to increase their own power.)
 
Listen, you can go wherever you want, whenever you want, carrying whatever hardware you want, waving the American flag and whistling "The Battle Hymn of the Republic," but when it all goes bad and you have to defend yourself, the first question is going to be, "Why didn't you walk away when you had the chance?"
 
reagan, where did all this happen? Inquiring minds want to know.

I got shot at twice (only one really counts), lots of fights, beat up and run over once, but nothing as scary as the multiple bad guy thing you describe. All I can say is "you're still alive," so I'm guessing you did the right thing. Spooky stuff.
 
Steely,

ok, I'll spill the beans. ;-)

All of my fun times occured in lovely Yakima, Washington... Drug gateway to the Northwest. I lived just east of 16th Ave between Nob Hill and Tieton...

Though from everything I've read, the town seems to have mellowed out a bit. I can only assume that it's due to most of the middle class moving out to the suburbs (read, 'the country'), thus decreasing the population density.
 
Oh, and they also stopped accepting all international shipments at the airport (hence less major drug smuggling)...
 
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