Snejdarek
Member
I found myself in a rather heated situation today in which I have made a series of tactical mistakes. Maybe someone could learn from them, or maybe I can learn from your feedback, so I will lay it out here.
First of all, this happened to me in Prague, Czech Republic. So please understand that general threat level is very low and so is probability of violent escalation. If this happened at a different place at different time of a day, I would of course react differently.
MISTAKE NO. 1: CHANGE OF MY EDC
My EDC usually consists of a pistol (usually CZ 75 PCR, less often CZ 75 Stainless, rarely Kahr CM9), Spyderco Street Bowie and a pepper spray.
In Prague, the most probable scenario involves a drunkard/junkie that is more of a nuisance than a real threat, so the pepper spray might be called the most essential part of EDC. I definitely don't want to get physical with anyone like that and use of firearm would be extremely disproportionate.
Anyways, I went to the range yesterday (500m) and when I got out of the car, I decided to leae the pepper spray out of my pocket, as well as paper tissues.
Then came the first mistake, when I was returning I left the pocket size pepper spray with all the other things in the bag. And I left the bag unpacked with the plan to go through all the stuff tonight.
MISTAKE NO. 2: ONE GUN IS ENOUGH HONEY
We decided to take about hour and half long walk through a park close to our flat. Take few stations with subway and then go back home through the park.
I am usually the one that reminds my GF to take her CC piece. This time, as we were about leave the flat, she told me she hasn't got her gun. It's scorching hot, she had a short summer dress and a purse, and it just went through my mind hat it is Sunday noon and we might not need one extra gun in off body carry in the purse.
So I asked whether she has her pepper spray and if she can take my extra mag to purse and that will be enough.
That was our setup. Me with a knife & pistol both IWB CC, her with spray and extra mag in purse.
MISTAKE NO. 3: ENGAGING WITHOUT FULL SITUATIONAL AWARENESS
We were waiting at the subway station when a train came in from the opposite direction. Casual conversation. A guy passes by and his hand gives a long slide over my GF's hind part (let's call him "perp" from now on).
I was aware enough that I knew they were two together and that one was passing me on my side and the perp on my GF's side.
However I didn't take a look around to make sure there is not more of them. It didn't bite me, but still, a mistake made.
I immediately shouted at him in a way that nobody in the station could miss (something along the line "hey, what do you think you are doing").
Guy turned around, visibly drunk and started saying something about being sorry in English. Seemed like a Balcan/Ukrainian type. The other one came back and started asking what happened.
I told them that apologies won't make it and that I want them to wait for the police, which I was about to dial.
MISTAKE NO. 4: BE SURE YOU GIVE YOUR POSITION RIGHT TO THE POLICE
As I dialed they started insisted that they are sorry and police is not necessary, getting to me a little closer than what I considered safe. So i untucked my shirt in a way that my CZ was clearly visible to them, told them that I am not interested in debating the topic, asked them to keep 5 meters away from us at the least and wait for the police, they can say the apologies to the officers.
Anyways, them coming face to face to me at that moment got me quite an adrenaline rush and for a reason I can't understand, I told the dispatch name of wrong subway station.
Perpetrator started walking away from us and the other guy was there with us saying this is unnecessary.
By that point my GF told me several times "leave it be".
MISTAKE NO. 5: FOLLOW THREAT, LEAVE GF BEHIND
I was keeping about 20 meters distance from the guy leaving, with police still on the phone, while my GF remained where she was (hand in purse on pepper spray all the time). The other guy stayed with her trying to reason (in non-threatening way) with her, since he saw there is no talking me out of it.
There seemed to be no threat to her but I still should have kept to her instead of going after the other guy.
We talked this part through in detail and next time, she will be the one on phone, keeping her distance from the situation but still close enough to me.
MISTAKE NO. 6: LET THREAT COME TOO CLOSE
The perp slowly moved out of the subway station. I followed and dialed police again updating my position (this time correctly, officers were in the meantime probably already in the wrong one, one stop away from us). The other guy was also out, my GF about 15 meters behind me.
I didn't engage them in any way, verbally or other, just kept my distance to be able to pin point them for the police.
They saw me and in came back to me again trying to explain that the whole situation is unnecessary.
The only response they were getting was "stay at least 5 meters away from me" and "wait for the police", which I was sure to say while still on the line (so it is on the record).
I updated the position and hanged up.
MISTAKE NO. 7: LET THE ****ER GET AWAY
We moved another about 150 meters from the station. The two sat on a bench and shouted something along the line "OK, we will wait here". (I kept about 40 meters distance from them).
They started smoking and I again called the police, asking arrival time, and only at that moment the dispatcher told me that I gave them wrong place originally so that the unit they sent is on the way from the original one. I gave them direct address as I was next to a block of flats that had the plate on it with street name and number and waited some more.
The perpetrator smoked his cigarette and being bored, decided to leave. I followed for a brief moment, but with my GF repeately saying to leave it be while refusing to give any more chase, and the other guy keeping his 50m and waiting, I decided it's time to leave him.
MISTAKE NO. 8: NOT FOLLOWING THROUGH?
Perpetrator disappeared.
Police car arrived, I told them what happened, the other guy said that he didn't see it but they apologized and that they don't understand why police had to be involved.
Officer asked what he would have done in my place and he said "I'd kick his teeth out but wouldn't call the police."
Officer asked if we want them to follow through. I knew what my GF is thinking and asked her about it, and we arrived to conclusion that we will leave it be.
Officer said they will drive around some more and see if they can find the guy to check him out but anyways, in situation like that there is not much they can do.
MISTAKE NO. 9: OFFICER ASKS IF HE CAN END THE CALL
At each time the dispatch officer asked me if he can end the call. I didn't pay attention to it but now it rings a bell. That is a legal issue for him and I gave him positive answer. The call is being taped and next time, I will not answer that question.
What I did right:
- I put myself between them and my GF both at the beginning and at the second call
- I asked dispetcher to tell the policemen that I am armed with legally held firearm
- I avoided escalation, and even though citizen's arrest crossed my mind at that point, I didn't act upon it
- I let them know I am armed in a way that didn't leave me open to any legal repercussions but yet fulfilled the purpose more than enough
What I was hoping would happen.
1) Mainly - if this is a behaviour the perp resorts to at noon on sunday when there are people around, what does he do in the evening in park or an elevator when there is nobody close?
2) They were clearly from outside EU. I wanted police to check perp's papers. Things work fast here, if he is illegal he would be out fast.
3) This kind of misdemeanor is punishable by up to CZK 20.000 fine. I would press for maximum amount.
4) This kind of misdemeanor is also punishable by order not to enter given municipal area.I would press for that too. If he would show around again in spite of such decision, that would be already criminal - in which case he would be most probably kicked out of the country even if he is legally here.
Anyways, if you see any more mistakes in what I did, please let me know.
We had a long talk with my GF about it and we will be sure not to repeat them.
Her innitial reaction was "I walk alone around here often and I can bump into these idiots at any time, now I will have to avoid this part, you didn't slove anything and it could have turned much worse."
In the end she understands I can't leave this fly and just pretend it didn't happen. Next time, she will be on the phone, and that continuously.
First of all, this happened to me in Prague, Czech Republic. So please understand that general threat level is very low and so is probability of violent escalation. If this happened at a different place at different time of a day, I would of course react differently.
MISTAKE NO. 1: CHANGE OF MY EDC
My EDC usually consists of a pistol (usually CZ 75 PCR, less often CZ 75 Stainless, rarely Kahr CM9), Spyderco Street Bowie and a pepper spray.
In Prague, the most probable scenario involves a drunkard/junkie that is more of a nuisance than a real threat, so the pepper spray might be called the most essential part of EDC. I definitely don't want to get physical with anyone like that and use of firearm would be extremely disproportionate.
Anyways, I went to the range yesterday (500m) and when I got out of the car, I decided to leae the pepper spray out of my pocket, as well as paper tissues.
Then came the first mistake, when I was returning I left the pocket size pepper spray with all the other things in the bag. And I left the bag unpacked with the plan to go through all the stuff tonight.
MISTAKE NO. 2: ONE GUN IS ENOUGH HONEY
We decided to take about hour and half long walk through a park close to our flat. Take few stations with subway and then go back home through the park.
I am usually the one that reminds my GF to take her CC piece. This time, as we were about leave the flat, she told me she hasn't got her gun. It's scorching hot, she had a short summer dress and a purse, and it just went through my mind hat it is Sunday noon and we might not need one extra gun in off body carry in the purse.
So I asked whether she has her pepper spray and if she can take my extra mag to purse and that will be enough.
That was our setup. Me with a knife & pistol both IWB CC, her with spray and extra mag in purse.
MISTAKE NO. 3: ENGAGING WITHOUT FULL SITUATIONAL AWARENESS
We were waiting at the subway station when a train came in from the opposite direction. Casual conversation. A guy passes by and his hand gives a long slide over my GF's hind part (let's call him "perp" from now on).
I was aware enough that I knew they were two together and that one was passing me on my side and the perp on my GF's side.
However I didn't take a look around to make sure there is not more of them. It didn't bite me, but still, a mistake made.
I immediately shouted at him in a way that nobody in the station could miss (something along the line "hey, what do you think you are doing").
Guy turned around, visibly drunk and started saying something about being sorry in English. Seemed like a Balcan/Ukrainian type. The other one came back and started asking what happened.
I told them that apologies won't make it and that I want them to wait for the police, which I was about to dial.
MISTAKE NO. 4: BE SURE YOU GIVE YOUR POSITION RIGHT TO THE POLICE
As I dialed they started insisted that they are sorry and police is not necessary, getting to me a little closer than what I considered safe. So i untucked my shirt in a way that my CZ was clearly visible to them, told them that I am not interested in debating the topic, asked them to keep 5 meters away from us at the least and wait for the police, they can say the apologies to the officers.
Anyways, them coming face to face to me at that moment got me quite an adrenaline rush and for a reason I can't understand, I told the dispatch name of wrong subway station.
Perpetrator started walking away from us and the other guy was there with us saying this is unnecessary.
By that point my GF told me several times "leave it be".
MISTAKE NO. 5: FOLLOW THREAT, LEAVE GF BEHIND
I was keeping about 20 meters distance from the guy leaving, with police still on the phone, while my GF remained where she was (hand in purse on pepper spray all the time). The other guy stayed with her trying to reason (in non-threatening way) with her, since he saw there is no talking me out of it.
There seemed to be no threat to her but I still should have kept to her instead of going after the other guy.
We talked this part through in detail and next time, she will be the one on phone, keeping her distance from the situation but still close enough to me.
MISTAKE NO. 6: LET THREAT COME TOO CLOSE
The perp slowly moved out of the subway station. I followed and dialed police again updating my position (this time correctly, officers were in the meantime probably already in the wrong one, one stop away from us). The other guy was also out, my GF about 15 meters behind me.
I didn't engage them in any way, verbally or other, just kept my distance to be able to pin point them for the police.
They saw me and in came back to me again trying to explain that the whole situation is unnecessary.
The only response they were getting was "stay at least 5 meters away from me" and "wait for the police", which I was sure to say while still on the line (so it is on the record).
I updated the position and hanged up.
MISTAKE NO. 7: LET THE ****ER GET AWAY
We moved another about 150 meters from the station. The two sat on a bench and shouted something along the line "OK, we will wait here". (I kept about 40 meters distance from them).
They started smoking and I again called the police, asking arrival time, and only at that moment the dispatcher told me that I gave them wrong place originally so that the unit they sent is on the way from the original one. I gave them direct address as I was next to a block of flats that had the plate on it with street name and number and waited some more.
The perpetrator smoked his cigarette and being bored, decided to leave. I followed for a brief moment, but with my GF repeately saying to leave it be while refusing to give any more chase, and the other guy keeping his 50m and waiting, I decided it's time to leave him.
MISTAKE NO. 8: NOT FOLLOWING THROUGH?
Perpetrator disappeared.
Police car arrived, I told them what happened, the other guy said that he didn't see it but they apologized and that they don't understand why police had to be involved.
Officer asked what he would have done in my place and he said "I'd kick his teeth out but wouldn't call the police."
Officer asked if we want them to follow through. I knew what my GF is thinking and asked her about it, and we arrived to conclusion that we will leave it be.
Officer said they will drive around some more and see if they can find the guy to check him out but anyways, in situation like that there is not much they can do.
MISTAKE NO. 9: OFFICER ASKS IF HE CAN END THE CALL
At each time the dispatch officer asked me if he can end the call. I didn't pay attention to it but now it rings a bell. That is a legal issue for him and I gave him positive answer. The call is being taped and next time, I will not answer that question.
What I did right:
- I put myself between them and my GF both at the beginning and at the second call
- I asked dispetcher to tell the policemen that I am armed with legally held firearm
- I avoided escalation, and even though citizen's arrest crossed my mind at that point, I didn't act upon it
- I let them know I am armed in a way that didn't leave me open to any legal repercussions but yet fulfilled the purpose more than enough
What I was hoping would happen.
1) Mainly - if this is a behaviour the perp resorts to at noon on sunday when there are people around, what does he do in the evening in park or an elevator when there is nobody close?
2) They were clearly from outside EU. I wanted police to check perp's papers. Things work fast here, if he is illegal he would be out fast.
3) This kind of misdemeanor is punishable by up to CZK 20.000 fine. I would press for maximum amount.
4) This kind of misdemeanor is also punishable by order not to enter given municipal area.I would press for that too. If he would show around again in spite of such decision, that would be already criminal - in which case he would be most probably kicked out of the country even if he is legally here.
Anyways, if you see any more mistakes in what I did, please let me know.
We had a long talk with my GF about it and we will be sure not to repeat them.
Her innitial reaction was "I walk alone around here often and I can bump into these idiots at any time, now I will have to avoid this part, you didn't slove anything and it could have turned much worse."
In the end she understands I can't leave this fly and just pretend it didn't happen. Next time, she will be on the phone, and that continuously.