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I'm sorry men, ladies, moderators.. but i really don't know who to turn too on this. Mod's, if you feel this isn't gun-related enough, feel free to move it..
I know there are a lot of people who are in, or used to be in law enforcement and I was wondering if I could be given some advice.
I'm practically married to my g/f Jane (lets just call her jane), been with her for over 2 and a half years and everything is great. Me and Jane are both 22, finishing up college and plan on getting married and starting a life.
Me and Jane both come from great families. But Jane has a sister that is out of control. She's 16, dates a 21 year old guy that is heavily involved with drugs, constantly tries to meet girls that are 15 y.o. and younger, and is extremely manipulative.
He cons her by saying he's left everything for Janes sister, and loves her to death.
Well, last week Jane's sister just had to get an abortion b/c this guy impregnated her. We've (me and Janes family) asked him to leave b/c he's making matters worse in Janes household but refuses to do so. By law, Jane's sister is at the age of consent so we couldn't get this guy for rape :banghead:
Anyway, I took this personally now because it's involved in my personal life seeing Jane cry all the time, and seeing a corruption in her family because of this.
So I called this guy on his phone and left him a message to back off, cut the crap, and get lost. This guy refuses to do so, he called me threatening if I tried to do anything, he would get me (implying he would shoot me by sending me pictures of his rifles from his cell phone to mine). I CCW, so really I have no problem seeing him face to face and I WILL defend myself If i have too, but I REALLY want to talk to him, because I feel I can get through to this guy and settle it man to man talk, without creating any further conflict.. But he keeps ignoring me, threatening me, and telling me "there ain't sh*t to worry about idiot"..
well there is, Jane's family just paid for the abortion that he couldn't afford to pay.
Also, Janes parents work very hard and they're doing all they can do to moniter the troubled sister, but she will break out of the house at any given moment and any opportunity whatsoever (including in the car at a stop sign). She's convinced that this drugged out loser is the perfect soul mate for her. :banghead:
Is there any ways to approach this and keeping the percentages of drawing my ccw to a minimum?
again, sorry. this is way too long. way too off topic.. and if you move/delete this post, i really understand. thanks.
I know there are a lot of people who are in, or used to be in law enforcement and I was wondering if I could be given some advice.
I'm practically married to my g/f Jane (lets just call her jane), been with her for over 2 and a half years and everything is great. Me and Jane are both 22, finishing up college and plan on getting married and starting a life.
Me and Jane both come from great families. But Jane has a sister that is out of control. She's 16, dates a 21 year old guy that is heavily involved with drugs, constantly tries to meet girls that are 15 y.o. and younger, and is extremely manipulative.
He cons her by saying he's left everything for Janes sister, and loves her to death.
Well, last week Jane's sister just had to get an abortion b/c this guy impregnated her. We've (me and Janes family) asked him to leave b/c he's making matters worse in Janes household but refuses to do so. By law, Jane's sister is at the age of consent so we couldn't get this guy for rape :banghead:
Anyway, I took this personally now because it's involved in my personal life seeing Jane cry all the time, and seeing a corruption in her family because of this.
So I called this guy on his phone and left him a message to back off, cut the crap, and get lost. This guy refuses to do so, he called me threatening if I tried to do anything, he would get me (implying he would shoot me by sending me pictures of his rifles from his cell phone to mine). I CCW, so really I have no problem seeing him face to face and I WILL defend myself If i have too, but I REALLY want to talk to him, because I feel I can get through to this guy and settle it man to man talk, without creating any further conflict.. But he keeps ignoring me, threatening me, and telling me "there ain't sh*t to worry about idiot"..
well there is, Jane's family just paid for the abortion that he couldn't afford to pay.
Also, Janes parents work very hard and they're doing all they can do to moniter the troubled sister, but she will break out of the house at any given moment and any opportunity whatsoever (including in the car at a stop sign). She's convinced that this drugged out loser is the perfect soul mate for her. :banghead:
Is there any ways to approach this and keeping the percentages of drawing my ccw to a minimum?
again, sorry. this is way too long. way too off topic.. and if you move/delete this post, i really understand. thanks.