If you have not heard barrel life is poor on Weatherby mags or 7RM, you have had your fingers in your ears. Most guys shooting these don’t complain as much as 22 cal to 6.5mm shooters, because these big case cartridges are generally hunting rifles, where round counts are low by nature, and ammo cost drastically outweighs barrel costs (even more so than the smaller bores, see below).
Barrel life and cartridge performance are always a trade off. The most “bang for your buck” is generally going to be a rather poor ballistic performer compared to the hotrod cartridges in its field. For example, a fast twist 243win can have half of the wind drift and less drop - with considerably less recoil - than the same case in 308win, but a 308win barrel will last 3000-5000rnds, where a 243win barrel will last 800-1800rnds.
You have to first consider the application - if 1,000yrd wind drift doesn’t matter in your application, you can get away with a cartridge with a lesser overbore ratio.
One other thing to consider - the expense in burning out barrels is rarely about the cost of the barrel themselves. If you’re shooting 2,000rnds per year of .243win or 308win you likely spent around $1500 on ammo (spitballing 2 boxes primers at $30 each = $60, 8lb powder at $250, 500 brass at $1/ea = $500, 35c/bullet x 2000bullets = $700, plus targets, range fees, gas, brownie-point presents for the wife, and whatever else you may have spent). So buying a $350 barrel and spending $250-300 per year instead of every other year really isn’t a huge difference. What MAY be a difference is the fact you’re getting 6mm bullets for 35-40cents each, vs. 45-55 cents each. A dime more per bullet yields $200 per year, a third of the barrel & install cost.
For some applications, spotting your misses and impacts matters, so extra recoil is an extreme disadvantage. Less wind drift might be a huge advantage to your score at some matches as well - so consider wasted fees and competition travel because of cartridge induced misses to be a soft, yet real cost in this equation as well.
So in general, I consider it silly when some newbie talks about buying some sub-optimal cartridge to start out in long range shooting, pretending they’re saving a bunch of money by buying barrels half as often. For hunting, a low volume game, a barrel will last a lifetime, so again, the consideration of barrel life is largely moot.