OK....I've got some OCD when it comes to deep concealment firearms!
I've been through the Bersa .380CC, Walther PPK/S (basically the same gun), Ruger LCP, KelTec P3AT, Sig P-238 and a Seecamp!
The Bersa, Walther and Sig just did not work as true "pocket" pistols. Just a little too bulky and heavy for that role.
The Ruger, KelTec and Seecamp were certainly "pocketable", but NONE of the three really fit my hand. The Ruger design placed the magazine release right where it seemed to get pressed every time I fired more than a single round (not a good thing!)...the KelTec and Seecamp just did not offer enough grip for me to feel comfortable. The last thing I would need in a high-stress, threat situation would be a less-than-certain hold on the weapon.
I tried several after-market grips and magazine fingertip extensions but none of them solved the problems.
These problems are not designs flaws in these pistols...simply a mismatch with my personal ergonomics!
Obviously, thousands of users find these guns to be perfectly acceptable.
The bottom line is that we are ALL built differently. TRY before you BUY!
My problem was solved when I happened to see a Diamondback .380 at a gun show. It weighs only 8 oz. and fits my hand like it was custom-made (yes, it's still a two-finger grip, but if feels completely different than the other pistols).
Part of this is due to a rather unusual grip design which is more vertical than the others.
This feature also reduces muzzle rise to near 'zero'. This pistol recoils directly back into the palm. And some sort of "voodoo" in the composite materials used and the design of the recoil system makes this the softest-shooting pocket .380 I've ever found.
Diamondback is a new company, founded by some former KelTec employees. Their build-quality is top notch and this little pistol is remarkably accurate. I've experienced NO problems of any kind through the first 500 rounds. It 'eats' every type and brand of ammunition I've fed it.
I enthusiastically recommend putting it on your list of pistols to try.
Mike