Every few days I see threads with the topic of gun ownership and a mate. My God people this is not rocket science or brain surgery. I have been married nearly 35 years and I am with in a few days of being 53 years old. Being raised in a rural section of the country gun ownership, hunting, utility and sport shooting, as well as fishing was / is the norm. Girls, at least back then, pretty well figured that their beau would be involved in those activities. My wife is not active in my appreciation of firearms but neither is she against it. She knows that I conceal carry a weapon, she knows why I do and she is not opposed. It is part of life, she realizes that the world we live in has changed from Lo those many years ago and that I love her to the point of laying down my life for her. If the person you are involved with does not understand your position then a decission will have to be made. It is a matter of priorities. Which is more important to you and your mate. Make that decission and move on. We are not launching a space shuttle. The making of a life long relationship is actually for more important than a space launch and that relationship takes a lifetime to establish, grow and mature. I'm not there yet! If there is not enough maturity to start with, it is doomed from the get go. You can not marry a person and expect to change them. They are who they are, it is a give and take proposition. It is not a 50/50 but a 100/100, both willing to give for the better of the other. Only in that ratio will both survive together. If the woman or man that you are in a relationship with is not willing to give and understand whatever it is about you, whether it is cars, high heel shoes and dresses, keeping the toilet seat in the down position, guns or, or, or, ....... whatever, you better take a long look at what your doing. Be prepared to say "I'm Sorry" for the rest of your life. You sir or you lady are going to make mistakes. They put erasers on pencils for folks who make mistakes. OK, Bill or Charlie or Ann or Flasemay you have guns the partner needs to understand that you come with those items or you better be prepared to relinquish them. What will you do, what will I do, what will the next 10 people who see this do, is an individual decission, it's personal and private. DO IT, GET OVER IT AND MOVE ON!
Whew, Pistol Toter