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My load data origins: Lyman 50th has no load data for a 158gr LSWC. Neither the ring binder paper cover book for .357 (I can't remember the name of those complications) or the Lee Modern Reloading 2nd Edition seem to have any data using 2400 for such a projectile. So I looked at the Lyman book data for 155gr lead, which maxed at somewhere around 15.5gr (I think), and the 160gr lead maxed at 14.0gr (but with lower stated pressure than other powders, or other .357 data). Then I went online and looked around some too. So there was really no one place I found the data originally. For as popular as 2400 appears to be in magnum handgun cartridges, I'd expect Alliant to have more published data. But they don't. However the Lyman Cast Bullet Handbook 4th Edition (which I subsequently purchased) does have a 158gr lead projectile. Though I can't remember the max charge from that manual, I do not believe 14.5gr is over it (I checked specigically).
Both Lyman manuals state they are using 4" universal receivers for all their testing. And no matter the bullets weight or powder, I don't recall loads recorded much over 1,350fps with Max charges of 2400. I'd have to check to confirm that of course.
Conversely, the DT ammo is claimed to run at 1,400fps from a 4.2" GP100 (which happened to be what I was shooting. Now I do carefully check my scales including zeroing them before each batch, and I also check every 10th cartridge as I'm loading. I know mymy Auto-Drum runs + or - 0.1grs, or there abouts. Now it is possible that the DT ammo is not running close to 1,400fps, and it's also possible that my load is over pressure some how. If either happened to a significant degree; or both happened to a lesser degree; I could see the velocities flip flop from what the numbers suggest. It could have gone that way.
So why am I concerned about the recoil? The original intent of my load was to somewhat simulate shooting ammo that I would carry, but without the cost of shooting that expensive ammo. I hadn't expected to work up a safe load that would give as much recoil as the boutique companies, and I'm not sure I see a point is dealing with more recoil for practice than I'd be subjected to if I need to use the gun and carry ammo in a defensive situation.
But then I thought, well perhaps the DT ammo is just going much slower than advertised. That's not good and not worth the money. Or what if load data aside, my load is somehow horribly overpressured. And then I started wondering if either of those things were really that likely, or if maybe I was missing some other factor.
I suppose the easiest thing to do is as you say, buy some other factory ammo and do a comparison.
Edited to add: I have no check weights for my scale. I did work the load up from 13.Xgrs.