Had to draw my weapon for the first time.

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I'll start this writing with these words of advice: Keep your doors locked.

I've been around guns since I was young, I am now 27 and own several weapons. I have a concealed weapons permit. I keep a gun in my bedroom and in my second room (office). I've never had to use any of my guns in self-defense before, but I run drills in my mind on how I would respond to various incidents.

I learned a valuable lesson tonight. It doesn't matter how comfortable you become with your confidence, when you are under stress (adrenaline) it is a very different circumstance than what had been envisioned in your mind.

The story...

Around 10pm and my girlfriend is in the bedroom asleep (or I thought so) as she needed to wake up early the next morning.

I wasn't tired so I was listening to some music (headphones) and playing a video game, while drinking a beer :D

I can't hear much other than the music and I am totally focused in on the video game.

I feel and smell cold - a draft of wind. I immediately become suspicious and pull my headphones off. I hear some noises (jumbling) and think my girlfriend must be having trouble sleeping and went outside to get a book from her car (she is a teacher).

That seemed completely rational until I noticed the bedroom door was completely closed.

My level of paranoia raised. I got out of my chair to inspect, but took only a moment to double back (I only stood up) to get my Walther PPK that I leave on my desk. This proved to be a wise decision.

My desk chair is only about 4-5 steps from the doorway of the room, which then has my bedroom to the immediate left and the main entrance door off to the right.

I enter the doorway with my trusty Walther at my side and look down the hallway in to my living/dining area and see the face of a girl looking back at me. I was momentarily confused, deciding if that face was my girlfriends or not. It looked ghostly - surreal. This was NOT my girlfriend.

I immediately pull the slide back on my Walther and draw upon the target and yell "What the f!@# are you doing in here?".

No quick reply.

A very quick moment later a MAN appears from my kitchen!

I immediately focused my aim on the new target and yell the same question.

I can not remember the exact words, but it was some sort of apology to which I yell the same question for the third time.

The man then says they are in the WRONG apartment.

My brain is trying to decipher the statement while trying to maintain a close visual on the suspects.

They both continue to apologize, with their hands in the air and the fear of god among them.

I ask them if they are high several times. The man says no, and keeps apologizing. He says they thought this was his mom's apartment. He is sweating and panting at this point, and apologizes more.

I draw my weapon down, as I see no immediate threat (their hands are empty and bent upwards).

I question them as to what apartment they thought they were in and they answer with a plausible number.

I asked them again what sort of drugs they were taking and the girl says they smoked some pot.

Bull****, but I let it slide. I have smoked pot in my younger years and have never been that much out of my mind to stumble in to the wrong apartment.

The man puts his shoes on (he took them off, a good sign he did indeed walk in to the wrong apartment) and I escort them out of my place.

I did not follow, closed my door and checked on my girlfriend - who heard the entire exchange and can't sleep now!


I am now really wishing I had verified their story, but I wanted to remove myself from the situation. I have the apartment number they gave me, which I can verify tomorrow. This area is known for a lot of meth addiction, and I would put little by an addict in need.

Things I realize I should have done differently:

1. Trust your gut. I knew it was odd that my door would open (feel/smell the cold breeze) when my girlfriend should be sleeping, but I tried to rationalize it.

2. When investigating, keep a bullet in the chamber. Had the suspects been armed, I might not have had time to react.

3. LOCK MY DOORS AT ALL TIMES

I'm glad it all ended without any one getting shot. I really am. This has been a valuable "training" lesson for me to better prepare for future encounters (hopefully none!).

I did managed to get a nice slice on my hand from my quick slide pull to chamber a round, so we can't say no one got injured ;)

I felt remarkably calm and in control of the situation after the first few seconds. I am very surprised by that, since this isn't what I anticipated it to be like.

Enjoy.

EDIT:

Forgot one more lesson, that I am now regretting. Call the police. They seemed genuinely scared and confused, but it could have been a rehearsed gimmick. You never know with addicts.
 
Your situation had a good outcome for two reasons: 1) You were lucky they didn't have worse intentions (or that you intercepted them before such could be acted out) and 2) You've identified a few areas to improve upon for defending yourself/gf in your own home. It's easy to get lax at home, heck it's supposed to be that way. Just take a few precautions before tuning the world out, as I'm sure you'll be doing from now on. Glad you're both alright.

I know you've got a lot on your mind already, but even if they weren't fixing to rob or visit violence on you and yours, they now know that there's guns in the house, along with anything else of value they may have identified (you have checked to make sure all you're stuff is still where it's supposed to be, right?). Being marked as a household with guns in it could be bad news for you. The good news is that your actions may have served as an effective deterrent. Hard to tell since I wasn't there, and even though you were, drugs can really screw a person in the head.

Had they been two meth-heads stealing to finance a fix or bent on violence, do you think you could have stopped them with the Walther if it had commenced to a real fight? Maybe one more consideration.
 
Good stuff, glad you're ok!

Here's a stretch, but a possibility: The guy took off his shoes, so he could be more quiet as he crept through your place.....?
 
I agree. The guy took his shoes off and then it would seem more real when they told you they were "in the WRONG APARTMENT."

Sounds like a real set up "this is what we will say, if we are caught."

Is there any way they could have looked into a window and seen you wearing your headphones in the second-floor office?
 
Lucky

Steel core front door, and alarm, the PPK? Safe gun now, Glock 19, you can afford it.

Man in kitchen? Nice wooden blocks live in kitchens, with nice knives! Mind change on your verbal challenge, shoes off, in hand? Nice people leave them at the front door! Wrong apartment? SURE!

Have Detective attend your location, print out description of both people, and accents, clothing, etc.

Time of invasion (which it was!) be very wide awake coming and going in and out! Much easier to enter with you!
 
Old Guy,

Good detective work on the shoes! Were they in the guy's hand, or left at the front door?

That would be the clincher!

I agree, have a detective come to the house. I was thinking, you should have ordered them to have their mug shot taken before you let them go.
 
Thanks for sharing your story.

The only comments that I can add is:

1) Always lock your doors. But you already realize that.

2) I call absolute BS on the "Wrong Apartment" thing. The guy came into an apartment and took off his shoes to make himself at home. But he didn't:

a.) turn on the lights.
b.) recognize that the furniture was different than dear ol' Mom's.
c.) did not say "Mom, I'm home!" in order to avoid scaring the hell out of her.
d.) I generally don't believe that people are THAT stupid. Yet, I am proved wrong often.

I mean, come on... if you can't figure out that you are NOT in familiar surroundings, you have failed the basic test of functionality in a species. You are not far above plankton.

I would have detained and called the police to do the fact-checking.

-- John
 
I live in a boringly safe Cleveland suburb. Since I moved here in '99 there's been ONE shooting that I can recall, a [dead] moron who robbed a sportscard shop then tried to shoot it out with the cops. Other than a guy who was molesting autistic boys as part of his "religion", that's pretty much it for "violent" crime. I ALWAYS lock my door. ALWAYS. But then I'm from Chicago, so I guess I don't need to say more about WHY I lock my door.
 
Wow, scary. Calling the police would be good. I've had someone march into my dorm room and then give me a BS story and I let him go too. Since then I've learned not to believe what people say when they're cornered.
 
I would at least make a report to the police station. Even if it's the day after, the chance that they could have been there for other reasons is too high.....if they come back, you should have something on record for your own protection, and so that it's easier to identify/prosecute.
 
Follow-up.

Their story checked out.

My apartment managers called the apartment and confirmed the story.

I hope this serves as a wake-up call if they have a drug addiction issue. Gotta think positive.
 
nice self control you covered your bases and didn't shoot someone over their stoned mistake. seems like aside from unlocked door you did fine. no one got hurt
 
Great story!

That was definately not the "wrong apartment". The shoes, the lights, etc. Everything was right for a home invasion. Kudos to you for dealing with it that well, however I would personally get a more powerful gun for strictly home defense. IMHO the PPK is great for concealed carry, but would have been underpowered if the man or woman had a gun with them. Still, having the drop on them is the key, so I'm glad everything went well.
 
Good story. Thanks for sharing.

My apartment managers called the apartment and confirmed the story.

There is still the outside chance that they were up to no good in the apartment complex where their mother lived and just used her apt # as cover, but who knows. If the two #s are similar, then you are probably right.

I hope I never go through anything, even if it be as benign as yours, but if so, I hope I can respond effectively as you.
 
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The ONLY other thing I would have done, if I didn't call the police and even if I did and the Police didn't, is search the apartment to ensure there wasn't anyone else with that crew of freaks. The only time I take anything at face value is when I am playing black jack.

Suggestions:

ALWAYS CALL THE POLICE God forbid they (or someone like them) come back with bad intentions and you pop one of them, it is nice to have a "prior" on record... Better yet Call your girlfriend to where you are and have her call the police. You want eyes on the people you care about AND on the perps.

I have a couple of pair of handcuffs :uhoh: in case I ever have to detain someone I can put them in the cuffs... THAT IS ALL I USE THEM FOR, I SWEAR! :evil:

Don't be a sheep and go back to normal, learn from this experience, address them effectively and then re-evaluate again and again and adjust. There is no such thing as a expert, only veterans. "Expert / Prepared" mindsets are what get us into the tall grass. Don't just get an alarm and think that it is a voo doo charm against this kind of thing.

Address the perimeter, you want to make it difficult to gain entrance, (heavy door, door brace, locks) have a contingency warning system if they do (Alarm system, dog, parrot or something), be ready to repel perps (weapon), be ready to look for perps (lights, kevlar), be ready to contact help (phone, radio, yelling...)
 
I was doing yard-work and saw a lady drive her car into my grandmother's garage, which was empty. She claimed to be trying to find her friends house. She didn't know the address of her friend when I asked.

I think this is a common tactic for these lazy criminals looking for quick turnaround items.
 
You did well, and you learned some important things (like all of us reading did). I am pretty anal about keeping my house and vehicle locked and my house is pretty well lit from the outside with a street light right out front and a yard light.

I check the doors several times an evening just to be sure I locked them. Sometimes, I find that we forgot to lock the main door we use, so periodically checking is not a bad thing.

Someone mentioned something a bit more powerful. Have you considered a 12 gauge? I love my Mossberg 500 with 20" barrel and magazine tube to the end of the barrel.
 
Sometimes, I find that we forgot to lock the main door we use, so periodically checking is not a bad thing.

Very good advice... I had my first "experience" today only hours after reading this thread. Went out to run some errands and came home and the back door (main door for me) was wide open. My dogs are wondering in and out (back yard is fenced) but didn't seem to bent out of shape. Out comes the 45 and I did a thorough room by room search. Nothing was disturbed or missing. It's windy today and I probably didn't close the door all the way and it blew open. Or maybe the would be intruder met my "pack"... 4 dogs from 60-110 lbs...

I didn't think to call the cops though. Mainly on the reaction to the dogs though. One of them was abuse by her previous owner and she wigs out quick and stays that way for a while. If someone had come to the door she would have been a little off. Now I'm wondering if I should have called the cops even though I was pretty sure the house was empty...
 
I think this is really a local law type issue, so I don't want to make myself look dumb by saying you did the wrong thing, but I would be pretty worried if I were you - seems like the folks could have actually pressed charges for you pointing the gun at them.

In NC, the clincher would have been the fact that the door was UNLOCKED and they wandered in (presumably). If you had shot them I'm almost sure you'd be facing manslaughter charges. Here in NC you can only shoot someone AS they're breaking into your house, or if they are inside demonstrably committing or going to commit a felony in your residence, or if you fear for your life or that of an innocent.

I can't say I blame you for what you did. I think it's a valuable experience, and other than (as an above poster mentioned) the fact that they now know a little too much about you, all's well that ends well.

Now would be a good time to start wearing your gun around instead of leaving guns out.

Good luck.
 
Glad you are ok, and everything ended without incident. But I think he had his shoes off, so he could sneak around without a lot of noise.
 
I asked them again what sort of drugs they were taking and the girl says they smoked some pot.

Bull****, but I let it slide. I have smoked pot in my younger years and have never been that much out of my mind to stumble in to the wrong apartment.

Pretty likely they were drunk as well, but didn't think to answer "and alcohol." Most people tend to not consider that a "drug." Like, let's say they called the cops on you afterwards, and they wanted to know what drugs you were on. Would your instinctive reaction be "beer," or "nothing?"

Not that I'm trying to defend those idiots or anything. Just theorizing.

The shoe thing is a good point, too.
 
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