Well folks, this "new guy" isn't going to get to be an "old guy" around here. You've just demonstrated how you handle an unpopular opinion (which WAS, BTW on topic).
Oh for heaven's sake.
This is about the MOST diverse bunch of people you will ever find. In truth, about the ONLY thing some of us can possibly agree on is RKBA. But we have been allowed to be here in Oleg's house and have conversations, and enjoy one another, and yes, frequently argue...sometimes passionately. We just have to do it without insulting people. And that post about women was insulting to half the population. Therefore you got called on it. Then you snarked at the moderator who called you on it, at which point you got Moderated On. A generally unpleasant event for the One Who Was Moderated, but we usually deserve it when it happens to us (and many of us have been Ones Who Were Moderated before, including me).
If you want to be able to say whatever you want in whatever manner you want, you are correct...this is not the place for you. If you want to stay and learn the ropes a bit, listen and get a feel for the place, you might do just fine here. You just have to recognize the boundaries that are set by the owner.
Not a big deal, really, and this is a nice place to hang out with other gun folk. But you have to choose what's right for you.
Springmom