Too much tinkering for me. I trust the companies who invested millions in design and development to create their product over a kitchen table gunsmith.
You are way too trusting, especially considering that Sig actually released a pistol that was NOT drop safe. I've worked for a dozen different manufacturers and I would only consider one of them to be ethical. One company actually asked me to FALSIFY a UL Safety Testing Report, which I REFUSED to do! I have VERY LITTLE trust in manufacturers.
The OP is clearly a handy guy, but I think he gets more enjoyment in tinkering with his guns than shooting them.
I shoot as much as I have time for and can afford to. If you want to donate to my ammunition and range time fund I could shoot more often.
But I wouldn’t carry a weapon that was so heavily tinkered with. About as far as I’ve ever done is changing a plastic guide rod to metal, polishing a feed ramp, and installing Wolff magazine and recoil springs.
And just what "tinkering" that I have done would cause a reliability problem?
Here is my list of what I do to a new P365 series pistol to get it ready for use.
Reliability improvements:
Polish the Stripper Rail.
Polish the Breechface.
Polish the Left Adjacent Wall to the Breechface.
Polish the underside of the Extractor Claw.
Polish the Beveled Edge of the Extractor Claw.
Polish the very rough edge of the Trigger Bar where it contacts the Sear and Striker Safety Lever.
Polish the rough edge of the Striker Safety Lever.
Polish the guide rod.
Solvent clean and relubricate the Return Spring Assembly after break-in.
ALL of these polished areas would normally become smoother after use anyway. I just greatly sped of the break-in period from requiring tens of thousands of rounds to being almost completely broken-in before I fire the first round.
Actual modifications:
Mildly radius the Corners of the Beavertail so my hand can't catch on it during a draw.
Extend the Magazine Release Button with JB Weld Epoxy.
Add Weight to the inside of the rear of the Grip.
Cut off the Right Side Manual Trigger Safety Lever.
Smooth out the Molding seams on the Trigger Guard.
Radius the sharp angles at the underside of the Grip by the Magwell.
Add a MagGuts Spring Kit to increase the magazine capacity by 2 rounds and also reduce the necessary racking force.
Deburr the Sharp edges of the Magazine Spring.
Reshape and Radius the outside edges of the MagGuts Floorplate for greater comfort.