Of those listed, I carry Speer in my .357 snubby most of the time, but right now I have some soft-point hunting loads left over from deer season. I figure if they do the business on a whitetail buck, they're more than enough.
I carry cheapo Winchester hollow points in my Glock 26. I've read all the blather about ballistics, about 9mm vs. .40 vs .45, blah, blah, blah. When dealing with a handgun, especially one that is too small to take a deer legally in Minnesota, from what I've seen hunting shot placement is about 1000 times more important than any of that Internet mental masturbation.