Rotorflyr
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The one SHE likes.
Butt out.
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Us macho dudes need to let our ladies make the selection, they are more than capable
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Now that said, since you mentioned she didn't like the "fat" grips of some of the guns that are in the family, have her check out the Kahr's, the CZ 100 series, Steyrs MA1 series (the older S series is a compact) and also remember there are a # of companies (S&W, Springfield etc) that are making pistols with interchangeable backstraps which should increase comfort levels for those with smaller hands. She may find a "full-size" works just as well for her, and I would also suggest she check out some revolvers as well
Just remember that ultimately it is HER choice and she needs to find out what works best for her.
Best of luck and let us know what She decides!