jimmyraythomason
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You and I will have to disagree kmullins. Most women will face the devil himself to save her children as will most men. You become willing very fast when your children are at stake.
Finding a pro bono lawyer of decent quality is like getting the winning lottery ticket. I don't have a lawyer in my church, and neither the church nor I have the resources to hire a lawyer.
correct!!!You and I will have to disagree kmullins. Most women will face the devil himself to save her children as will most men. You become willing very fast when your children are at stake.
If you've never experienced a domestic situation .....well,you just don't know.
Why would anyone asssume she is lying? That is one on the biggest things that keeps women in abusive situations. My wife said her ex had her believing that she couldn't do any better than him and nobody would believe her anyway. If you've never experienced a domestic situation .....well,you just don't know.
I *am* an instructor so for me, in that situation, I would teach her to shoot and, if needed, sell her a gun. I would NEVER loan it out though.
Alabama does not have an "automatic restraining order" at the filling of divorce papers in fact there has to be evidence of violence to get a judge to issue one. And yes I have gone through a divorce and I do know.
The woman can't afford a gun. The problem the pastor has brought up is difficult in this regard. The woman is fearful for herself and kids, but can't keep the husband out of the home because legally it is his property as well. She can't afford a gun, training, or a lawyer. The pastor is worried about liability in helping the woman. If he does loan or sell the woman a gun and she uses it illegally, there will be liability issues. He will have knowingly sold or loan a gun to a woman for the purpose of a violent confrontation. The question will be if there is any way that the pastor could have known that the woman would wrongly use the gun. Ideally, it will all get sorted out and the pastor will come away clean, but the issue may cause problems for him temporarily if he provides the gun.