Hawk:
Great story....
I think there may be a market for home-deactivators....
Sometimes those tags are buried where you can't find them (or the store people can't find it to de-activate it), and you really never know what's going to set off what.
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When confronted by a door-checker with a bad attitude, I think my play (OH requires notification!) would be to tell the checker: "I may be required by law to inform you that I have a CHL and am carrying. For everybody's safety, we will remain
here until Uniformed LEO's turn up or you can show me active duty LEO ID. If you are active duty LE, I will cooperate as required by law. Otherwise we're staying out in the open."
Or something like that.... We're required to notify under almost all conditions if we're carrying, and who knows where they got that guy in the store.... A local grocery uses off-duty Township Brass - Lt's and Captains - and one of them looks like a teddy bear. You'd never guess.... Point being that we in OH must notify in all but the most trivial contact circumstances.
(IOW, I was in the local Best Buy dealing with a service issue when an off-duty LEO from another township showed up with his little girl to buy a computer. We chatted a bit, but I didn't say anything about the CHL or the bulge on my belt. That's fine. If, however, he asks to see my OL or something, then he'll get notification. Long thread on this elsewhere, but the issue is "Law Enforcement Related Contact". "May I talk to you, Sir?" probably doesn't require anything, but "Don't Move" probably does....)
Crazy world....