You DID pay your initiation fee when you submitted your application, didn't you? That'll hold you up for several days, along with (as in my case) your paypal account doesn't forward the funds in a timely manner....
I'm a member on probably a dozen forums relating to shooting and SD, including sigforum. My experience has been positive, and it's one of the forums I frequent the most, whether I'm posting or not. I find the participants to be less leftist than some other block forums, and generally less intent on putting everyone in his or her place. The fact that some folks can't take sarcasm, irony, and Para's humorous way of making corrections is unfortunate, and part of life. If you're in another man's castle, it's his rules.
I'd encourage you to email and check your progress directly.