I’m the wife of a member whom shall remain anonymous. He left this page up, and spends too much time here for me to not wonder and then get sucked into this place a bit too. Skip this if you can’t stand the female perspective.
I think this future father in law of yours just doesn't like you much no matter what. You are a 19 year old college student making 6 figures on your lunch breaks or something? That can only mean one of two things, either you are a drug dealer (hey way to go!) or you come from some privilege (another hey, way to go!). If the second is right, then I just wonder why this privilege is not enough to impress him? How much privilege is that, I dunno? Maybe I am too far down the chain to even guess, it just seems like a lot. No offense meant though. So you’re all in the same class, way up there somewhere, whatever, I am not speaking out of jealousy, it doesn't matter the class you are in, we’re all playing the same game.
Ok, this idea that you can impress him with hunting exploits, honey, you've watched too much tv. So the money doesn't mean much to him, because he sees that you think it would in the first place, maybe? You've pointed out now that you have the money, that you are in "his" class, but he still doesn't like you and you just don't get it? Is he self made? Maybe he is wishing you were as well.
The religion thing is more believable. Way more. And believe me, it won't matter if you shot 3 leopards as they were attacking your FIL, because religion runs deeper than all that. You are screwed basically if that's the hang up he's got on you. I think you know that already. What’s the point of impressing him if you are going to turn out to be the demon spawn of Satan, or whatever jewish people believe in, as you steal his daughter’s soul for eternity and all, tomorrow?
Oooor, there’s the idea that NO man is good enough for his daughter, which is what EVERY dad thinks, and you are honestly going to try to change that? ha.
Your only 19, for his 21 year old baby girl, but you’re rich, (or now a good shot?) so you think that's gonna make this game any different?
Just to offer you some light at the end of the tunnel though- if you make his daughter happy and he sees that, any father worth associating with will come around eventually, and should tolerate you in the mean time. And to create the ultimate contradiction to my whole point, when he sees that you are making an honest attempt to impress him, that should mean something too. That honest attempt should just be within your means, and as you have indeed mentioned several times, you are playing with the 'big dogs' and that means the amounts you spend, that make my husband drool, are within your means. So, best of luck as you try to impress your future father in law. My husband was employed and sober.
And yes, I was beating a dead horse already, that you all changed his mind on the rifle two pages ago. My husband shouldn’t leave this page up for me to even see