My wife thinks I am "silly" to lock the door before I leave the house while she is home, or when I ask her to never open the door for anyone she doesnt know, even if its a delivery person. She thinks its silly that I have a gun around at all times while home (even though on occassion she has appreciated it. She believes we are in a neighborhood where "it cant happen here" even though a bad area is less than 3 miles away.
I have given up trying to figure out what it will take short of something horrible to get her to recognize the need for home safety. I think part of the problem is that she is a tall (6 ft) independent, tough, and strong woman who thinks she can just take on the world, or that someone will be there to help the minute she needs it. I cannot win these conversations, so I have all but given up trying, is there anything I can do to convince her home safety is not simply a paranoia issue?
I have given up trying to figure out what it will take short of something horrible to get her to recognize the need for home safety. I think part of the problem is that she is a tall (6 ft) independent, tough, and strong woman who thinks she can just take on the world, or that someone will be there to help the minute she needs it. I cannot win these conversations, so I have all but given up trying, is there anything I can do to convince her home safety is not simply a paranoia issue?