i'm 56. keep a scandium j frame smith loaded full power .357mag. sports crimson trace grips in a nemisis pocket holster in strong side jeans pocket. it weighs in with laser grips to within a fly's whsker of factory hogue grips...12 oz i beleive. i like the fact that you don't see or feel it, yet have some serious power available in an instant. downside, great grouping out to 50' then the spray effect begins. i sometimes carry a 1911 70's combat elite colt that i bought as a child, lol. bianchi inside the waistband holster, strong side carry. more gun imho, plus better range, (150'), than the snub, but i prefer the feathery weigh in of the smith.