Great find! As for your ‘splainin’ you really need to set her straight from the onset. Just tell her it’s your money and you will spend it however you please. Now this next part is very important. If she gives any back-talk just tell her she’s “cut off” for the next two weeks. I know that’s a drastic step but ya gotta lay the law down and let her know who’s boss. Take it from a guy that’s been married three times. That strategy works!