Giving the "silent treatment" when pulled over

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Heypete, your experiences are pretty good advice. Some police I've ran into treated everyone like a criminal up front, but with the attitude you displayed, you shouldn't have any problems.

Thanks. I figure these cops are dealing with the Scum Of The Earth(tm) all day, and dealing with a polite, respectful, non-confrontational person makes their job a bit easier, decreases stress for both of us, and reduces my chance of getting a ticket (particularly with such a minor violation).

That, and I'm generally a Nice Guy(tm) and don't enjoy giving anyone flak. The cop's just doing his job and asking routine questions. If he started asking questions which I felt were not relevant or required for him to ask, I'd politely decline to answer.
 
i was a bad boy

as a result i was an involuntary pedestrian for 18 years. i had many interactions in order to achieve that goal. some pretty bad. made the 10 o clock news. i was always cooperative and got cut huge slack both on the street and in court when the judge would ask the officer for my demeanor when i got nailed for driving while stupid.155 in a 55. i was carrying back then and alwqys declared and kept paws away from gun till cops decided how they wqanted to handle that. they hate gun surprises. my real life encounters(not to make fun of thoe folks who's imaginary ones don't match up with mine)involved over 50 arrests and many more stops of one sort or another. i had exactl one bad time. and it was precipitted by my dimwitted prtner in crime. i regret to say that a consistent policy of candor(once they had me cold) worked for me. as an example my last incident almost 2 decades ago was a dui . engaging in a speed contest on a public highway no license possesion os a controlled substance and felon in possesion of a weapon, i didn't bsem exercsed my right to be silent politely and after getting a lawyer and going to court i ended up with a 250 dollar fine and one years probation before judgement(also know as differed sentence in some states) rathe rthn some ego boosting hero of the revolution posture i used a clever ruse when the judge asked if i had anything to say i said "yes your honor it happened just like the officer said it did, i knew it waqs wrong when i did it, i knew i'd get punished if i got caught, so i'm here today to take what i got coming. " she said "thats a different attitude, we have a special bonus for people who tell the truth " and gave me a sentence that surprised even my lawyer. hey buy if you guys are getting good results with the hero of the revolution bit keep using it. my not so limited experience makes me plan on not dropping a winning system
 
lol

i pulled over first set of lights i saw. they had a hard time getting lights where i could see em. it cost me 8 months in jail for that one. i used the recomendations from zen and the art of motorcycles for getting pulled over. the most important part of which is. " remember that the man behind you has a gun and some kinda at least limited permission to use it. and that he mighta had a bad day"
 
Finally, I had to tell him I had heard him, tell him that his question was "blah blah" and my response was: *silence*. THEN he finally got that I was simply refusing to answer that question.
Once upon a time I was stopped by an Arizona highway patrolman for serious speeding.

"How fast were you going? I had the gas pedal floored and passing through 85 mph when you disappeared."

"Officer, I think under the circumstances it is unwise for me to answer your question."

"Yeah. I don't think I would answer that question either."

He wrote me up for 10 mph over the posted limit.

Pilgrim
 
Ive had people say things to the extent "I dont wish to discuss my personal life officer" etc etc. When I asked "how are you this evening?" or "where are you headed tonight?"

Those things, I dont really mind. So long as you answer the important questions and give me your information thats fine.
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DontBurnMyFlag, I'm not calling you personally a liar, but I find what you say incredibly hard to believe. You may be a paradigm of virtue, and in that case I apologize for any affront. But you will please understand that such pure individuals are as diamonds in the rough.



http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=2585482423715017278

Officer #1: How are you tonight sir?
Brett: Hi.
Officer #1: Can you put your window down for me.
(roll the window ALL the way down.)
Officer #1: Do you have a driver's license and proof of insurance?
(begin to get my information out of wallet)
Officer #1: Where you headed tonight?
Brett: I don't wish to discuss my personal life with you officer.
Officer #1: Alright, come on up here.
(I start to move my car)
Officer #1: As a matter of fact, just stop your car right here and step out.
 
After reading through this thread, I've come to the conclusion that maybe one or two or more of y'all's a$$es just might be going to jail the next time you're stopped by the cops:D
 
Someone owes me the 18 minutes of my life I just wasted watching that stupid video. :D
 
I've got out a lot of tickets by being polite and respectful. The silent treatment is a bad idea imho unless you actually have something to hide.
 
I keep a 12ga in the back seat. 100% legal in TX. But I would rather not share that information with a LEO for them to intrepret however they please.

Yup. Don't mention the shotgun in the back seat. Just let me find it--or see it on my own.

I guarantee you one thing, fella--you WILL remember that traffic stop for the rest of your life!

You have an option here:

1. Tell me you have a gun in the back seat. My reply will be, "OK. Just leave it be for right now and we'll be fine. License and registration, please."

You'll more than likely get a warning, and we'll talk about guns for a bit, if you have the time. Patrol can be kinda lonely sometimes, and I like to talk to good people. :)

2. Leave it alone, and don't tell me that it's there. I happen to see it while I'm standing there.

I make small talk, and quietly go back to my car, with your info. I then call for priority back-up, while I very quietly unlock my AR-15. Next thing you know--surprise! You are the recipient of a felony stop!!!

And if you think I--or any other cop--is going to take chances with someone who is not up front or less than honest, you're just plain wrong.

Sorry, but that's the way it is, sportsfans.
 
I advise common courtesy and decency, of the same sort that we (should) tentatively offer to strangers until they prove they don't merit it.


Hello, good evening, and so forth. Clamming up & looking guilty is gonna set off flags all over the place.


Regarding CCWs, just hand over your permit w/ your license, and take cues from the officer. If you have a longarm that's reachable (in jurisdictions that allow it), it's probably prudent to offer something like "You probably want to know that I keep my {whatever}, {wherever}"

For all other topics, such as "where are you going?" I recommend definitive, but nonspecific answers. Definitive in that the question will be mentally checked off as "answered", nonspecific meaning "lots of plausible deniability built in".

Example of definitive but nonspecific: "To a friend's".
Example of definitive and specific: "To a friend in Meepersville"
Example of non definitive and vague: "Oh, down the road a ways."
 
I'm pretty surprised by some of the ideas here, like giving the silent treatment. What's so hard about handling a traffic stop? You act normal, treat the officer with respect, don't volunteer information that isn't directly relevant, don't answer questions that aren't relevant, and don't consent to any searches, but just be like a normal person. That's how you get the best result. If there are guns in the passenger area, disclose that! It's for your safety, so no one will freak out if / when a gun is seen.
 
100% legal in TX

surprise! You are the recipient of a felony stop!!!

That's not only under THR, that's about as low as an armed purse snatcher.
It's posts like the one above that foster and stir the pot of the 'us vs. them' mentality. I think if the statement is true, you seriously should talk to a professional about it. Before you put somone at risk who needn't be.
 
I was once accquainted with a particular brand of idiot that recommended the "silent treatment" at stops. I am quite sure this person wanted to be a policeman when he was younger, but couldn't, and that was probably a good thing. He has utter disdain for cops and is one of those people who will try to tell the police what their job is even though he has no idea what he's talking about. The reason he recommended the "silent treatment" is because most of the time when he was pulled over, he'd been drinking. Actually, chances are that he'd been drinking most of the time, driving or not driving.

I'm not the police, but if I was the police I'd probably think the person was drunk or stoned and trying to hide it. If someone talks to you, you can smell their breath. I imagine that the police, doing this all of the time, are able to smell not only the scent of somene who has been drinking, but the general scent of someone who drinks large amounts of alcohol on a regular basis.
 
Certain behavior patterns come under the heading of normal or expected. Others appear abnormal or even weird.

Seems to me that the idea of the silent treatment is abnormal. Dunno 'bout weird. But if I was a cop I'd wonder at somebody who did that. I'd start wondering about what the guy was trying to hide. What sort of games were being played. I'd get curious. Might even request a wait until the nice doggie arrived. Quien sabe?

OTOH, with common sense, courtesy and politeness, I've usually been gone on down the road pretty quickly. No hassle. Minimum time out of my regular life.

Being cute is for Comedy Improv. Not during a traffic stop.

Art
 
As for the OP, I see no advantage to me to clam up. I'm going to be polite, responsible, and take my cues from the officer. At the same time, I'm not going to be overly chatty or try to make small talk. If I have legitimate questions about the stop, I'll ask in a non-confrontational way and, again, take my cues from the officer. Chances are we both will be on our way in a short time.

K
 
Bad Idea

If you were just going to get a warning, you will sure as hell have just bought your self a ticket.

I know a few police officers, and let me tell you, 99% of them hate pulling you over just as much as you hate being pulled over, maybe more. Most of the times that I have been stopped it was because I was doing something stupid.
 
These threads are great for reminding me of how rediculous some LEO questions can get and how they somethimes weasel in something that seems it is being asked to "bug" me. I am allways couterous to officers and respect them, but feel they get to inot asking stuff that has absolutely nothing to do with the traffic stop.


If an officer asks me where I am comming from or where I am going, I answer with a question, Why do you ask officer? They sometimes feel challenged soometimes they don;t and you have to play along accordingly!

This is all a game to see what they can get away with asking and you playing your part in knowing your legal rights. Remember, if a traffic situation turns into an incident because either you or the officer gets out of line, it is all being recorder either on audio, video or both....hopefully both if you are the one in the right!
 
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I find it better to go through life giving the same courtesy to everyone. If I can be polite to the clerk bagging my groceries then I can do the same for the police officer doing his job. You ought to know when the questions get out of line, and then you can use "Officer, I don't mean to be rude, but are you conducting an investigation? If so, then I would like to have my attorney present."

However, a polite "Good day officer, how are you today?" and associated banter shouldn't be a problem.
 
Unfrickingbelievable...

Ya know, I've been a cop for a good while, I've written God only knows how many tickets, I've had so many folks I've lost count, talk themselves into a ticket.

I've had to drag more than my fair share of a$$holes out of a car and take'em to jail for what amounted to basically stupidity.

We have a name for it, OHBWS.

I've sat in court and played those same in car videos to a Judge who then proceeded to chew the a$$ of the a$$ I arrested.

I've had more than a few folks talk their way out of tickets by simply being polite, not groveling mind you just polite.

We catch **** all the time from punks and other unsavory types on traffic stops all the time, that is why most cops have such a low threshold for BS on 99.9% of all traffic stops.

Just work traffic in a predominately minority area and you will see just exactly why.

In the same respect you will also see that on those same traffic stops where someone acts stupid we 9 times out of 10 end up with a large crime beyond the PC for the stop.

See our experience's based upon the actions of your fellow rock dwellers makes us suspicious when you act a certain way.

Basically you are acting like a criminal, someone we've dealt with time and time again.

You can be polite and not answer questions but I do encourage you to at least respond to the officer don't sit there acting like a common doper who just got stopped for speeding and is holding, don't give off any vibes such as you might be hiding something or worse yet you are staying silent thinking over a course of action in your mind, sizing up the situation, measuring a response.

Thats exactly what will be going thru the cops mind when you begin acting like a criminal who is hiding something or looking for an out of the situation.

Expect to be removed from your vehicle for that very reason, because that is the greatest mode of escape, the courts have realized this and give us the authority to ask you to exit the vehicle and if necessary remove you.

A traffic stop is a seizure under state and federal law, it is basically a mini arrest, because you are not free to go until the stop is concluded with either a bond being given (your signature on a citation) or a warning from the officer.

During this seizure all the officer needs is reasonable articulable suspicion which is not higher than the probable cause standard but is sufficient to justify further detaining.

United States v. Wallace
Reasonable articulable suspicion of criminal activity sufficient to justify detention for arrival of drug-sniffing dog
SEARCH & SEIZURE/SENTENCING
United States v. Wallace,


Also, The recent Supreme Court opinion of Muehler v. Mena, __U.S.__, 125 S. Ct. 1465 (2005).

In Muehler, the Court held that mere police questioning does not constitute a seizure under the Fourth Amendment. Muehler, __U.S. at__, 125 S. Ct. at 1471. As long as the officers questioning did not extend the length of the detention, there is no Fourth Amendment issue with respect to the content of the questions. See United States v. Santos, 403 F.3d 1120, 1132 n.6 (10th Cir. 2005).

The officer did not need "probable cause" to detain the person for further investigation however. The intervening detention only required "an objectively reasonable and articuable suspicion illegal activity has occurred or is occurring." United States v. Hunnicutt, 135 F.3d 1345, 1349 (10th Cir. 1998).

Reasonable suspicion is determined by examining the alleged factors within "the totality of the circumstances," United States v. Fernandez, 18 F.3d 874, 878 (10th Cir. 1994), and is easier for an officer to demonstrate than probable cause.

Factors, which when taken separately may be perfectly innocent behavior, can support a finding of reasonable suspicion when taken together. See United States v. Arvizu, 534 U.S. 266, 277 (2001).

Conversely, "[a]lthough the nature of the totality of the circumstances makes it possible for individually innocuous factors to add up to reasonable suspicion, it is impossible for a combination of wholly innocent factors to combine into a suspicious conglomeration unless there are concrete reasons for such an interpretation." United States v. Salzano, 158 F.3d 1107, 1114-15 (10th Cir. 1998) (citations and quotations omitted). In analyzing the factors that may amount to reasonable suspicion, we must be careful to "judge the officer's conduct in light of common sense and ordinary human experience . . . [but also to grant] deference to a trained law enforcement officer's ability to distinguish between innocent and suspicious circumstances." United States v. Mendez, 118 F.3d 1426, 1431 (10th Cir. 1997) (citation omitted).




Just use a little bit of common sense and don't become the next piece of case law we have to deal with, our job is hard enough as it is, don't make it any harder by acting like a jacka$$ on a traffic stop for a simple offense, especially while carrying a gun!!!
 
TheFederalistWeasel, you hit the nail square on the head.

Now you must give us the meaning of OHBWS.

Please sir!
 
Thanks FederalistWeasel.

I'll put it another way: You may have frustration with law enforcement in general, with the continual loss of our rights. That's legitimate and fine, and I share that feeling. But being an a__hole to a cop on a routine traffic stop is not the place to vent that frustration. Vent it by channeling it into working in productive ways. Working street-level cops are not the enemies here. The enemies are their masters who are elected officials.
 
"Do you have any weapons" an unreasonable question?
No it is not, not from an officer safety stand point, and that is in any type of a stop vehicular or of a person afoot. An officer ask questions, some you may think are unreasonable in order to gauge the person being querstioned. Add to that that you may have been stopped for reasons other than you expect, such as your car resembles that of a fleeing felon and you fit the descrtiption, and you can bet the officer will be asking a lot of questions; but it does not matter if just a traffic stop, plenty of cops have been killed or injured during routine traffic stops. So yes they ask questions when you are stopped.

If an officer asks me where I am comming from or where I am going, I answer with a question, Why do you ask officer? They sometimes feel challenged soometimes they don;t and you have to play along accordingly!

This is all a game to see what they can get away with asking and you playing your part in knowing your legal rights. Remember, if a traffic situation turns into an incident because either you or the officer gets out of line, it is all being recorder either on audio, video or both....hopefully both if you are the one in the right!

It is no game. If you sit there and do not answer a police officer, when stopped, how do you think you appear to the officer. He can decide you are a mute, are intoxicated, are worried, are tense, are being a jerk or whatever, but I can assure he will be tensed up because you are jnot acting normally. Abnormal behavior to any extent is something that should immediately put an LEO on high alert. Once an officer is in said state, because you sit there acting abnormally refusing to answer questions, the officer is tense. This tension is often expressed by the officer giving you a harder time, if only as a defense mechanism because you are giving him a harder time.

Common courtesy goes a long way, and you do not have to admit wrong doing in order to be courteous.

All the best,
Glenn B
 
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