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I'm sad for the non-dog people that don't get it and haven't experienced it.
To co-exsist with a dog and know they play, love, enjoy your company, dream and have nightmares is apparent. If you haven't experienced a dog grieve over a human or another dog or hang out with you when you are ill you won't understand they are linked to humans as no other. I posted this in another thread but in case you missed it-(and one for the Old Yeller crowd...)
CT
Lakota Native Legend
When the world was created, First Man and First Woman struggled to stay
alive and warm through the first winter. First Dog struggled also.
Deep in the winter, First Dog gave birth to her pups. Each night, she
huddled in the brush of the forest, longingly watching the fire which kept
First Man and First Woman warm.
First Winter was severe, so cold that First Dog dared not leave her pups
to search for food to fill her own belly, fearing that her pups would freeze
to death in her absence. She curled around them, but the wind was bitter. Her
belly shrank with hunger, and soon she had no milk. The smallest pup
perished, and First Dog felt her own life draining away as she struggled
to care for the remaining pups. Fearing for the fate of the others, she knew
she had no choice but to approach the fire and ask First Woman and First
Man to share their food and the fire's warmth.
Slowly, she crept to the fire and spoke to First Woman who was heavy with
child. "I am a mother," said First Dog, "and soon you will be a mother
too.
I want my little ones to survive, just as you will want your little one to
survive. So I will ask you to make a pact."
First Woman and First Man listened. "I am about to die. Take my pups. You
will raise them and call them Dog. They will be your guardians. They will
alert you to danger, keep you warm, guard your camp, and even lay down
their life to protect your life and the lives of your children. They will be
companions to you and all your generations, never leaving your side,
as long as Mankind shall survive. In return, you will share your food and bring them inside for companionship and
the warmth of your fire. You will treat my children with love and
kindness, and tend to them if they become ill, just as if they were born from your
own belly. And if they are in pain, you will take a sharp knife to their
throat and end their misery. In exchange for this, you will have the loyalty of
my children and their offspring until the end of time."
First Man and First Woman agreed. First Dog went to her nest in the brush,
and with the last of her strength, one by one, she brought her pups to the
fire. As she did so, First Woman gave birth to First Child, wrapped her in
Rabbit skins, and nestled First Child among the pups by the fireside.
First Dog lay down by the fire, licked her pups, then walked away to die under
the stars.
Before she disappeared into the darkness, she turned and spoke once more
to First Man, "My children will honor the pact for all generations. But if
Man breaks this pact, if you or your children's children deny even one Dog
food, warmth, a kind word or a merciful end, your generations will be plagued
with war, hunger, and disease, and so shall this remain until the pact is
honored again by all Mankind." With this, First Dog entered the night and returned in spirit to the Creator.
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How Could You
Written By: Jim Willis
When I was a puppy, I entertained you with my antics and made you laugh. You called me your child, and despite a number of chewed shoes and a couple of murdered throw pillows, I became your best friend.
Whenever I was "bad," you'd shake your finger at me and ask "How could you?" -- but then you'd relent and roll me over for a belly rub.
My housebreaking took a little longer than expected, because you were terribly busy, but we worked on that together. I remember those nights of nuzzling you in bed and listening to your confidences and secret dreams, and I believed that life could not be any more perfect.
We went for long walks and runs in the park, car rides, stops for ice cream (I only got the cone because "ice cream is bad for dogs" you said), and I took long naps in the sun waiting for you to come home at the end of the day.
Gradually, you began spending more time at work and on your career, and more time searching for a human mate. I waited for you patiently, comforted you through heartbreaks and disappointments, never chided you about bad decisions, and romped with glee at your homecomings, and when you fell in love.
She, now your wife, is not a "dog person" -- still I welcomed her into our home, tried to show her affection, and obeyed her. I was happy because you were happy.
Then the human babies came along and I shared your excitement. I was fascinated by their pinkness, how they smelled, and I wanted to mother them, too. Only she and you worried that I might hurt them, and I spent most of my time banished to another room, or to a dog crate. Oh, how I wanted to love them, but I became a prisoner.
As they began to grow, I became their friend. They clung to my fur and pulled themselves up on wobbly legs, poked fingers in my eyes, investigated my ears, and gave me kisses on my nose. I loved everything about them and their touch -- because your touch was now so infrequent -- and I would've defended them with my life if need be. I would sneak into their beds and listen to their worries and secret dreams, and together we waited for the sound of your car in the driveway.
There had been a time, when others asked you if you had a dog, that you produced a photo of me from your wallet and told them stories about me. These past few years, you just answered "yes" and changed the subject. I had gone from being "your dog" to "just a dog," and you resented every expenditure on my behalf.
Now, you have a new career opportunity in another city, and you and they will be moving to an apartment that does not allow pets. You've made the right decision for your "family," but there was a time when I was your only family.
I was excited about the car ride until we arrived at the animal shelter. It smelled of dogs and cats, of fear, of hopelessness. You filled out the paperwork and said "I know you will find a good home for her." They shrugged and gave you a pained look. They understand the realities facing a middle-aged dog, even one with "papers."
You had to pry your son's fingers loose from my collar as he screamed, "No, Daddy! Please don't let them take my dog!" And I worried for him, and what lessons you had just taught him about friendship and loyalty, about love and responsibility, and about respect for all life.
You gave me a good-bye pat on the head, avoided my eyes, and politely refused to take my collar and leash with you. You had a deadline to meet and now I have one, too. After you left, the two nice ladies said you probably knew about your upcoming move months ago and made no attempt to find me another good home. They shook their heads and asked "How could you?"
They are as attentive to us here in the shelter as their busy schedules allow. They feed us, of course, but I lost my appetite days ago.
At first, whenever anyone passed my pen, I rushed to the front, hoping it was you that you had changed your mind -- that this was all a bad dream... or I hoped it would at least be someone who cared, anyone who might save me.
When I realized I could not compete with the frolicking for attention of happy puppies, oblivious to their own fate, I retreated to a far corner and waited. I heard her footsteps as she came for me at the end of the day, and I padded along the aisle after her to a separate room. A blissfully quiet room.
She placed me on the table and rubbed my ears, and told me not to worry. My heart pounded in anticipation of what was to come, but there was also a sense of relief. The prisoner of love had run out of days.
As is my nature, I was more concerned about her. The burden which she bears weighs heavily on her, and I know that, the same way I knew your every mood.
She gently placed a tourniquet around my foreleg as a tear ran down her cheek. I licked her hand in the same way I used to comfort you so many years ago.
She expertly slid the hypodermic needle into my vein. As I felt the sting and the cool liquid coursing through my body, I lay down sleepily, looked into her kind eyes and murmured "How could you?"
Perhaps because she understood my dogspeak, she said "I'm so sorry." She hugged me, and hurriedly explained it was her job to make sure I went to a better place, where I wouldn't be ignored or abused or abandoned, or have to fend for myself --a place of love and light so very different from this earthly place.
And with my last bit of energy, I tried to convey to her with a thump of my tail that my "How could you?" was not directed at her. It was directed at you, My Beloved Master, I was thinking of you. I will think of you and wait for you forever. May everyone in your life continue to show you so much loyalty as I did.