To the OP----my thoughts----I voted "all the above"
I have several wheel guns----mostly SA 6 shooters,,,,,,,,good to learn on and to teach basic safety skills with,,,,,,,,,,,but IF you are trying to get a new "shooter" interested in shooting,,,,,,,,,,try a good semi auto 22
Less work involved----stick a loaded mag in it----rack the slide-----and pull the "boom switch"----------easier than a SA for sure,,,,,,,,and more fun than a DA.
Once "they" like the idea-------bring out the SA/DA revolver-----show them the difference--------maybe the semi auto will "jam" just once,,,,,,,then you can explain why a revolver is BETTER for HD than a semi auto.
A good poll on here would be---how many "guys" have a semi for CCW and their SO's have a revolver on their side of the bed or in their purse!!
I carry a Beretta 92 9mm, but IF I had a SO, she have a revolver!!!
UJ