DarkSoldier said:
What I said was that I was living in a state of heightened awareness 24/7. I'm not sure why this seems so unacceptable or impossible to so many folks.
Living in a state of heightened awareness 24/7 is not the same as living life with mags stacked and pins straightened.
Let's do away with the euphemism Jeff coined for S&T a few years back that Biker referenced.
Jeff was talking about living in a state of the anticipation of an imminent threat, one so imminent we could probably articulate specifics of the nature and time of the attack. As in ,"at least three armed men, coming from right over there."
That's Condition Red. That's the mindset we're referencing.
Walking around the home armed until we retire from the evening is not the same thing.
I don't belittle anyone who makes that choice. Nor do I belittle anyone who decides to leave the house unarmed. Some folks live in places they don't have that option lawfully.
Perhaps you weren't around to witness what S&T had degenerated into before Jeff started cleaning house. This subforum was not only full of guys who spoke as if they did live that way, but they also belittled those who suggested they lived otherwise. That is what Jeff's "mags stacked and pins straightened" euphemism references.
But I will go as far to challenge the claim that it's possible to live in a state of heightened awareness 24/7. You do sleep, don't you?
Both Jeff and I have lived under periods of 24/7 general alertness, or what would fall under Cooper's "Condition Yellow". It takes a team of people to actually do it for any lengths of time. The mind and body simply cannot handle that level of stress for extended periods. Restful sleep is not compatable with condition yellow. I knew plenty of Marines who were written up for sleeping on post. They weren't derelict; they were simply exhausted. And their Commander, who himself had rest the night before, was looking to make examples.
This couple had a plan, and they immediately put it into place. Yup, luck had a lot to do with it. But luck often has a lot to do with how every single fight goes. Sometimes it's good luck, and sometimes it's bad. That's just life. But they were decisive, had their plan down, and his wife went with it when he called out their code word. I have a tough time getting my wife to go along with me on much of anything. The fact she reacted so quickly says a lot about their trust in each other's judgment and teamwork.
I call that a good day in my book.